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[frenzie]

Hi guys,

 

Havn't heard from my ex since i last called her. i just had something happen in my life that is good news and i want to share it with her. however, we are low contact at the moment and the last time we spoke she was rather bitter and resentful (2nd time speaking, !st time was good). Was wondering whether or not i should text her with this news or just wait until she contacts me, if she contacts me. Any advice on what to do would be awsome.

[Censored]

Don't contact her to share your good news. That's simply an excuse to justify you contacting her. Why would she care about your good news? She is your ex.

 

I wouldn't even bother sharing any news with her if she does contact you. What for?

[Ampire]

Don't contact her to share your good news. That's simply an excuse to justify you contacting her. Why would she care about your good news? She is your ex.

 

I wouldn't even bother sharing any news with her if she does contact you. What for?

 

Becuase he wants to show her hes doing good without her...

 

But I wouldn't contact her, if she contacts you and ask whats new then tell her....

[The Saint 12]

How log has it been since you don't talk to her?(Or you have been broken up?)

[frenzie]

How log has it been since you don't talk to her?(Or you have been broken up?)

 

its been about a week since ia have spoken to her and about 1.5 months since the break up. we decided to stay friends when we first spoke but then when i rang her about a week ago she was a bit bitter and smug. probably because when we spoke i said that everything was my fault and blamed myself.

[bustertypsy]

If she finished with you,don't contact her.If you win a billion on the lottery don't bother telling her.Go forward and live life without her.

If you finished with her,then she is probably bitter because you hurt her.If you did finish with her,then do the decent thing and leave her alone,so she can heal and move on.

As you didn't give enough details in your post I have to give my opinion from both sides

[frenzie]

If she finished with you,don't contact her.If you win a billion on the lottery don't bother telling her.Go forward and live life without her.

If you finished with her,then she is probably bitter because you hurt her.If you did finish with her,then do the decent thing and leave her alone,so she can heal and move on.

As you didn't give enough details in your post I have to give my opinion from both sides

 

Thanks alot. you can find the details of what happened in my previous threads. there is only one thread and it explains pretty much everything up until now.