Rules after 30 days NC

[Gershie]

If after completing 30 days of NC, when you have your head sorted but still miss the love of your life.......... How do you try and contact them again???

[emalkoc]

Go another 30 days NC

[dqueen]

Keep going until you don't miss them anymore. The purpose of NC is to help YOU heal and move on. Many people make the mistake of using it as a tool to get their ex's back. 30 days of NC is still too early...go another month, and keep doing it until you find yourself saying "What the heck do I need to contact her for?"

[Gershie]

I want to use the time to calm the storm..... This is a marriage with a young child involved....... We need to talk about him, we just cant at the moment... I need to break the stalemate so that his best interests are addressed..

[emalkoc]

You cannot do NC if children involved...Sorry you have to do LC at minimum..

[Gershie]

I have done 30 days... I have my son every weekend, my ex txts once on the weekend to say goodnight to my son.... I have not contacted her whatsoever, we have no contact at my sons exchange as someone else collects and returns....... My ex has refused to dicuss any other matters..for example our relationship, finances etc.... So I stopped contacting her full stop... We need to start communicating and I need to be able to choose a time when she may respond....