3 months

[nickvanzanten]

It's been 3 months since my girlfriend broke up with me. She breaks up with me because of her busy schedule. She has a lot on her plate. In the masters program, 3 super hard classes, and vision and physical therapy. That's a lot. She can only hang out with me whenever. She knows I deserve better. She knows I deserve a girlfriend who will talk to me everyday and who will see me more often. She can't do that now. I'm hurt.

 

I am a Christian who has strong faith in the Lord. I keep praying everynight for God to cure my heartache. The prayer remains unanswered.

 

I never dated in high school or in college.

In high school everyone knew who I was. Everyone knew my name. If the students found out I asked a girl out to prom, dances, or out on a date; they would never let me live it down. They would keep bothering me about it. And because of that I was scared to date girls. Like if some student came up to me and said, "Hey Nick how's your girlfriend doing?" That person would say that to annoy me. If I told one of my friends that I was going out with somebody he/she would spread it all over the school and then all the students would want to know about it.

 

I went to Grand Rapids Community College. The student atmoshpere was terrible there. Nobody would talk to me. They all looked at me like I wasn't there. They all looked at me like I had a problem. It was bad.

[kevinm]

Sounds to me like she broke it off not because of her busy schedule but some other underlying reason. Just a guess, but perhaps you are facing a self-esteem problem? Why do you care what other people think about you? Especially when those others don't care to associate with you anyway? Do you see the viscious cycle here? Perhaps it's time to do a little soul seaching and look in the mirror. Only you can release yourself from the patterns you've established.

 

-Kevin

[benga]

Quite honestly, a busy schedule is no real reason to break off a relationship. That is absurd. There must be something else.