So im just about to ask her out..but how?

[rusty_boi]

hey guys im back again

for a short background into the story its here

 

anyway schoolies is over and now its finally time for me to ask her out. So two questions 1) would a coffee be a better date or xmas shopin wit me?? wat would she be more inclined to say yes to in ure opinion?

2) how should i go about doing this, ive decided to bite the bullet and call her but ive never really aksed out a girl on the phone before so i have no idea how to do it.

 

i wanna seem interested but not too interested if u get me.

 

Thanks for your time

[Censored]

Ok, so i have seen your other posts. Damn i live on this site.

 

Have a topic of some sort to talk to her about before you call.

 

Personlly, I would definetly go for the coffee outing. Relaxed, easy and comfortable.

 

Good Luck!

[ghost69]

you want to seem more interested right? ask her out in person.

 

either one. i'd go for coffee personally.

[Phaser]

Since this is the original to 'bump' posts you can either do it indiscreetly ie

you make a post saying bump or sneaky like by saying anyone else have thoughts etc.

 

Now on to the topic honestly, one thing I've learnt is that no one can be that busy especially at what 17/18 to spare a few hours to catch up with someone.. It sounds like a lost cause.

I've had the whole 'Oh I'm busy for the next two weeks' hints given to me.

But since we don't have any real knowledge about your situation you may as well try again.

Call her up and ask her to coffee or the shopping thing. If she is interested it won't matter which one you say, unless she only wants free coffee.

How to do it?

Pick up the phone, dial the number. Make some small talk about how shes been then ask her to do something.

This just popped into my head, don't knwo if it is good or not but just say like

'We should be doing this in person. Lets get coffee.'

[surfNski]

I'm with the rest of the boys, it aint looking to good for you man. But never the less I like the all go attitude, so I would say call the woman up and ask her out to coffee.

[Dating Coach]

Great! Ask her out! yeah! And you and her boyfriend can split weekends with her! Yay!

 

C'mon bro....