Iwantittoend Posted December 9, 2007 Posted December 9, 2007 I really noticed it tonight... I was cuddling with my ex (long story) and I went to the bathroom later on. I noticed that it was all over my boxers. All we were doing was cuddling...no sex or anything. Then a couple days ago we were doing the same thing and it happened again. We've never had sex and I am a virgin, so I don't know what it would be like when I actually do. But I do plan on having it with her, and I don't want to make a fool out of myself by cumming in a minute or less. How do you control it?
Censored Posted December 9, 2007 Posted December 9, 2007 Well, if you didn't have an orgasm then it is "pre-cum". So that it is perfectly normal.
Iwantittoend Posted December 9, 2007 Author Posted December 9, 2007 Well, if you didn't have an orgasm then it is "pre-cum". So that it is perfectly normal. Okay...didn't know that. But when I do actually have sex, is there a way to control the cum from coming out?
Censored Posted December 9, 2007 Posted December 9, 2007 Well, I don't think you really need to worry. You can always go for round two if it happens too quickly. I suppose you could try some self satisfaction before you decide to become intimate with your partner, that should calm you down a bit.
Censored Posted December 9, 2007 Posted December 9, 2007 Well, if you mess around enough and have a semi erection or full erection, then you will get pre-cum, (well i am assuming thats the correct slang term for it) link removed
Censored Posted December 9, 2007 Posted December 9, 2007 Yeah, it is relevant tot he individual, i read it as "cuddling" as in, getting sexually excited without taking it any further. Look out if i want a cuddle
Siriana Posted December 9, 2007 Posted December 9, 2007 I think it's normal. Cuddling is enough to be excited to end up with some pre cum on your boxers - especially if you're a virgin. Since you're a virgin I think just a little action can make you really, really exited.
pinkelephant Posted December 9, 2007 Posted December 9, 2007 was it white or clear? if its clear then it would be precum. that's normal, i dont think its controllable.
itsthatguy Posted December 10, 2007 Posted December 10, 2007 If she's your EX why are you cuddling with her and planning on having sex with her?
ghost69 Posted December 10, 2007 Posted December 10, 2007 Okay...didn't know that. But when I do actually have sex, is there a way to control the cum from coming out? gotta think of roseanne barr. it stops all.
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