Phone calls

[cichlid]

How often should one call so that it is enough to look like one is still interested, but not so much that it looks like one is needy?

 

The guy I am talking about waits for me to call but talks for HOURS. For example, I might call at 9pm and we end up talking until 1-2am. He has told me that if he is busy and doesn't want to talk, he will let me know. He has given me permission to call him whenever I want.

 

Last time I called him was Thursday night, I might call him on Sunday night since I will be busy until Thursday afternoon. Maybe it's time to let him know he can call me whenever because my parents don't hate him. He thinks they do. For some reason, he feels like they see him as a bad influence (smoker), might be the reason behind my recent break up, and let's just say his ex's parents never liked him even though he gave them no reason to hate him. I still live at home and all that fun stuff. Also you have to remember that we did stay out until 4am one Friday night and my parents were not thrilled one bit to find me sneak in the house. Whoops! They did get over that and were mainly worried about me. I don't have a curfew.

[ghost69]

well, tell him not to call after 10 or something. reassure him to call you.

[cichlid]

well, tell him not to call after 10 or something. reassure him to call you.

He works late sometimes. I'm praying that he gets this other job. They seem to like him...so maybe! Then maybe we can hang out at normal times in the day. Though, my mom officially hates him. She's never really talked to the guy, but she hates him for keeping me out late ONE night. She overheard me talking to a friend about his sob story of a childhood (he's a perfectly sane and happy individual) and now thinks he has issues. Apparently his biological father killed his mother and then himself when he was 2...his aunt raised him and he was too young to honestly care. I've known him for a year and so far...happy-go-lucky guy who doesn't let anything bother him.

 

My mom thinks the worst at times. I've been talking with my dad about it all. I said that I won't stay out late again (We cuddled, talked, watched a movie). It wasn't planned...but I will make sure it doesn't happen again. I told him it wasn't a rule, but more of an exception. I'm a good kid and won't do anything I don't feel comfortable with. Simple as that. Oh, the joys of living at home. *sigh*

 

Yes, I'm hoping his gets this new job. Haha...he asked me if I applied for it and if he should consider me competition.

[ghost69]

well, good luck. hope it works out.