Why did she say....

[Sam _]

I've been wondering something, but it's not much. I was waiting in the bus lot for my bus and while I was waiting one of the girls that rode the same bus walked up to me. She asked if the bus was here and I smiled and said that it isn't (I always smile at someone when they talk to me). Then she introduced herself and asked my name. When I told her my name she extended her hand and after I shook her hand she said that she would hug me but she wasn't going to because a lot of people are cautious about that. I told her I wasn't cautious and she hugged me. After she hugged me she asked if I had a girlfriend and when I told her that I didn't she said that she doesn't think I would go for a girl like her. I told her that neither of us could say that since we just met (I've never become attracted to someone's looks unless I start becoming attracted to their personality). We exchanged phone numbers (she asked for mine first).

 

We got on different buses (I ride two different buses, one takes me to work and the other home). While I was on the bus I started thinking. Why she did she come out and say that I probably wouldn't go for someone like her?

[Plain Curious]

She probally has been rejected by guys that look like you. Dude get to know her, then ask her out!

[DropToZero]

Wow....honestly that's a pretty brave girl, not very many I know would be that forward(at least not without a little alcohol in them hah).

 

But that's cool, she took the chance, it seemed to have gone well...she obviously likes you and wants you to give her a call, so...do so. Don't worry so much about why she said someone like you wouldn't go for her...if anything it was just a slight show of insecurity, but she DID approach you so...don't stress. Just call her, get a date, and then have a good time.

[SuperSport]

Sam is lucky as hell! Yes, defiantly ask her out when you call her. Have fun!

[CandyKins]

How are we suppose to know? But I guess we can guess.

 

She might had a bad reputation with guys before. Oh well, forget love. Create a friendship. A good and solid friendship. You can flirt a bit in friendship you know.

[programmer]

Man, you are lucky. Was she hot?

 

My ex was brave enough to ask me for my phone number. I eventually loved her and she dumped me after over 4 years. If this works out for you, don't ever tell her that you love her, even though you want to.

 

Girls will take us for granted when they hear the 3 famous words. And dump us!

[Sam _]

Two comments:

 

1) That is unusually assertive for a woman. Are you sure it was a woman?

 

2) You "always smile at people when they talk to you". Don't do that to someone who is trying to mug you. They may think you are going to try to trick them or something and they will get pissed off.

 

Well, I don't know any guys that are named 'Chelsea' lol, but other than that, yes I am sure. I am friends with a lot of assertive girls, I may have encouraged them to be more assertive in the beginning but they are "unusually" assertive now. Besides, assertiveness is a good thing for a woman to have in my eyes.

 

I didn't literally mean always.

[definitely_maybe]

 

We got on different buses (I ride two different buses, one takes me to work and the other home). While I was on the bus I started thinking. Why she did she come out and say that I probably wouldn't go for someone like her?

 

My best guess is that it is just a pickup line engineered to make you continue to think about her. it definitely did work, if that was the intent.

[ghost69]

ask her out next time you see her. don't try and get to know her first. that is part of dating.

 

and that is amazing you find a women physically attractive after you find her mentally attractive. no idea how that works.