All the signs point toward getting back together but she hasn't asked yet

[HyruleGuardian]

I posted a thread last night on how my ex changed her myspace around basically for me. This is what she did:

 

-She put up a picture of the two of us together

-Her heading was changed to "I never thought I'd meet the one I want until I met you"

-Under her interests she put "Hanging out with my best friend and lover *my name*"

-Changed her song to a love song about being together forever with someone, and left me a comment on my page telling me it was for me.

-Told me she loved me in a comment previous to that one.

 

I talked to her last night about it and she asked what I thought about all of it. I told her that it was really sweet and it made me think of the two of us together. I tried not to make it sound like I was really shocked by it...I just kept my cool. Then she told me that she felt the same way and that I am the only guy that has ever respected her. That I have changed her for the good and I told her she has done the same for me. But after that she didn't really say much.

 

I'm going over to her house for a Christmas party tonight so maybe she'll ask me then, but I don't know. This is really confusing me.

[buckdawg]

great news!!!

 

just don't push too hard or anything. keep on playing it cool and you'll be fine. hard to argue with all those signs lol

[Superfreak]

My recommendation would just be to ask her out on a date when you see her if you're still interested. Obviously she likes you still but maybe you're playing it so cool that she's not sure if you like her back anymore so she's waiting for you to make the final move in getting back together.

[HyruleGuardian]

I guess I should've included this:

 

She's leaving in a month for the military and will be gone for 5 months. She has told me multiple times that she doesn't want to get into a serious relationship because of this. Yet she's acting this way around me. This is why I'm confused.

[buckdawg]

lol

 

that's a pretty big part to leave out

 

i can see your confusion now. still...i think playing it cool is best. with her impending separation i think it's going to be real tough to make it work. i hate to sound like a debbie downer but you guys are so young. i'm no where near the person i was when i was 19-20. people grow and change. i'm not saying it can't work but that it will be tough. at this point i think you probably need to look out for yourself first and foremost.

[Hope75]

I guess I should've included this:

 

She's leaving in a month for the military and will be gone for 5 months. She has told me multiple times that she doesn't want to get into a serious relationship because of this. Yet she's acting this way around me. This is why I'm confused.

 

Have you posted about this situation under another name?

 

I seem to remember responding to you when you asked about this before and telling you the best thing to do would be to confront her and tell her that you are not OK with just messing around until she leaves.