Confused in a relationship

[Big Daddy Kane]

Hey, is there anyway ("signs) that you can pick up on if a girl that you like is confused in her current relationship with you? like she's taking but she might want to be me instead but is confused.

 

What signs would she show?

[Red Dwarf]

I'm confused.

 

What?

[Big Daddy Kane]

lmao. Like if the girl you like has a boyfriend, and she flirts with you, always asking about you,and ect. is those signs she's interested in you? or could you tell me things a confused girl in a relationship would do to the guy she's interested?

[Red Dwarf]

If you're talking about a girl in a current relationship and you think she wants to be with you instead, then stay the hell away.

 

How can you trust a person like that? You can't.

 

But yes, some people will flirt with someone else when they are unhappy in a relationship. Also, some people have a fear of being alone, so will try to "set up" the next relationship before htey have finished the last.

[Big Daddy Kane]

But we had something before she was takien. And it's not a serious relationship they don't even go on dates, it's just a in-school-relationship.

[Red Dwarf]

Ho wlong have you know this girl?

 

Does she flirt with other guys as well, is it just part of her character?

 

How old is she. How long has she been with her B/F?

 

Do you flirt back, does she like it.

 

Need lots more info, and then people can give better responses

[Big Daddy Kane]

Ho wlong have you know this girl?

 

Does she flirt with other guys as well, is it just part of her character?

 

How old is she. How long has she been with her B/F?

 

Do you flirt back, does she like it.

 

Need lots more info, and then people can give better responses

 

I've known her for about 4-5 months.

 

She doesn't flirt with other guys. You know how it is when your a pretty girl, guys hawk her. It's normal.

 

She's 16 (I'm 16 also).

 

She's been with her boyfriend for about 3 months. Her last relationship lasted for like 1-2 years.

 

I try not to flirt back, because of all of the guys in the classroom flirting with her. Plus she has a boyfriend and I have to respect that.

 

Ok here's some more info:

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On Thursday I a little upset with her. She asked me for a hug in class and I said I wasn't gonna give her a hug, and she was shocked/embarrassed cause people were looking.

Then she was like: "Are you mad at me?", "Did my boyfriend say anything to you", "Your girlfriend doesn't want you hug me?" (don't know why she said that, I don't have a gf lol). Then I told her she flirts too much (well, she doesn't flirt alot she just laughs when our friends try to flirt with her so I get a big jealous lol), then she said she doesn't flirt alot. And I told her I didn't want her to hug me, cause she hugs everyone.

She asked if we were still friends, and I said yeah.

 

So the next day she gave me a hug.Then we didn't talk alot we just talked to our circle of friends, but we kept making eye contact. Then I looked at the white board, and she said "(my name) I saw you roll your eyes at me!" like in a jokey way, and I was like no lol. Then she said it again "I know you rolled your eyes at me", then our friend was like shut up (her name) he doesn't like you anymore lol.

 

The reason I'm kinda mean to her is cause I was upset that she went out with that guy...

 

EDIT_ The biggest flirt move she did is like last week she came to my desk for some help and she had squated by my desk to look at my paper, and she started rubbing her leg with mines. that's something she would NEVER do to any guy that have been flirting with her, so I'm pretty happy about that.

[Timebandit]

It's very very simple - she is unavailable.

[Big Daddy Kane]

So all I can do is be friends. Correct.

[Timebandit]

So all I can do is be friends. Correct.

 

At best - yes.

[ghost69]

stay away from girls like this. you should never worry about girls in relationships.