Her Eyes are Sending a Hidden Message; or is it just me?

[theultimate740il]

Hey members of e-notalone! It's been a while since I have been a member here but I remember this is my favorite place to come for help whenever I'm in need; so before I begin I would like to say thank you to all members, from Noobs to Veterans; you're all making a difference in peoples lives.

 

There’s a girl in my school I started to talk to in my Yoga class. I began talking to her about 2 days ago. We are both always cold so we always end up near the heater together (usually sitting on it). This Thursday I was trapped outside the Yoga room because the teacher was running a bit late for class. As anyone of you knows who is from the North East it is literally freezing up here. Outside the room I scramble to find a source of heat as the nearby door opens every 2 seconds. In a moment I find a heater on the wall behind me. The teacher has got a substitute who knows nothing of the class and lets us do nothing. I sit on it and enjoy my heat. Edie (eee dee) [the girl] comes and sits next to me; we start talking about the weather and how very cold it is. I think nothing of it. At this point I’m having honest one on one small talk. 5 minutes later the room is open and we are invited inside; Here it is much warmer yet it is still unsatisfactory to us, we instantly decide to go to the heater inside the yoga room; accross from our mats.

The room is filled with conversation but not a crowd like audibility more of a soft volume. We are not really anything more than acquaintances and with all the rumors about me round about she was astonished after telling her my life story how nice I was; she was un-expecting of this result.

Here is where this really gets interesting. She tells me all about her and while she lets me add a little bit more conversation I take notice of her body language. She is looking at me with every word spoken and when I finally stop staring straight forward and turn my head towards her, (to my right) she is looking dead into my eyes with this adoring like eye thing going on. She is looking into my eyes with the look that you see when a child is looking at a Christmas present that they really wanted and you got it for them. This glistening effect I have seen here and there in my life from girls, but never in a constant frequency; it’s rare to me.

This look said a couple of things to me. As for possibilities I conclude the following =. A. She adores me B. She got feelings for me from out of nowhere C. She was in need of some serious coffee and so was I D. It was just me and my imagination and was totally nothing at all.

She captivated me with this look as if to tell me she liked me a lot. It was so sincere yet it felt so obvious. Since I never leap before I look of course I end up here using my “ask the audience” lifeline. I couldn’t stop thinking about it that day.

The Next Day… . . . . . .

I arrive for my Yoga class and everything is running smoothly, now I am completely formatted in my head and have totally bypassed any thought at all of her. Her friend Abby sits on her right side as I sit on her left. Then I sitting Indian style trying to warm myself. Abby and her are horsing around and Edie says ok you’re scaring me and she then jumps while sitting down, [more like hops] next to me; we are looking at about 4 Centimeters worth of distance between us now. Once again I’m creating some humor for her and Abby and they are both on the ground laughing. Me and Edie talk with our legs up the wall for part of today’s exercise. She turns her head towards me and I do the same. We start talking and somehow we find out we both keep pictures of our exes on the wall in our rooms. They are from years ago yet it’s interesting to share this in common. She says goodbye to me as I leave; which I didn’t expect because Abby was talking to her as I left. During this time on the wall she continues to give me the look.

 

I know it’s stupid and I’m probably an idiot for posting this but what do you think is going on. Does she like me and what is she trying to communicate but either sucks at it or that I suck at understanding.

 

Thanks all help appreciated...Happy Holidays

[Poe]

women tend to speak with their eyes. speak with yours back.

 

and then do something about it.

[Jeen]

Mmmmmm I do think from your words it is very possible that she like you, and would like you to make the next move, in showing you would like to be more than just friends, ask her out or do something to show you are interested. Take the next step, if it do not work you have your answer, but if it work enjoy it. It sounds really promising to me.

[theultimate740il]

Thanks guys; just a question though. If i make a move i'd like to start with a verbal one. Is there something I should say in order to spark the fire?

[theultimate740il]

Hey can I get some more input anything is appreciated thanks.

[fastball2113]

I am in the same position you are, been getting signs and now have to make a move...but remember you said you have only been talking to her for two days, not a very long time by any stretch. Flirt with her ALOT, touch her hair, face, small of her back, hands and for a short time too (no groping, usually they dont like that). Also, HANGOUT WITH HER. Do not misconstrue this and ask her out, you must hangout with her outside of the yoga class. Do not specify if its just as friend or a date, let her over analyze and build up for it. When you hangout with her outside of yoga class, this is important, when she seems to be having the most fun LEAVE. This will make her want to hangout with you more because there is not a dull moment, and she will think you are a fun guy.

 

try the flirting then ask her to hangout, but if you get her phone number...your getting close to the goal my friend.

[Dating Coach]

Thanks guys;

 

Bro, you are analyzing WAY TOO MUCH! Stop trying to read signs that could mean one of a hundred different things. The ONLY THING that you need to know is that you LIKE HER. That's it. Now that you know that you like her, your job is very simple:

 

Your job is NOT to sit here and wonder if she likes you back.

Your job is NOT to become best pals and wait for a better time.

Your job is NOT to confess your feelings to her.

 

You job is simple. Flirt with her. Tease her. Have fun with your conversation. Get her phone number. Ask her out on a date of YOUR choosing. Take her out. Joke and flirt and tease some more. When you drop her off, KISS HER.

 

That's it. That is all you do. If you try to do it another way you're likely to misstep or wait too long.

[yellow_sweater]

When you hangout with her outside of yoga class, this is important, when she seems to be having the most fun LEAVE. This will make her want to hangout with you more because there is not a dull moment, and she will think you are a fun guy.

 

FYI there are some women who would be INCREDIBLY turned off with these types of stupid head games (present company included).

 

If you're into her, why don't you just, oh I don't know, do something simple, like ask for her number? And then hang out with her outside of yoga class? And then, if after getting to know her, the attraction seems mutual, ask her on a date?

 

YS