MrMango Posted December 7, 2007 Posted December 7, 2007 Alright so im not gonna put myself down and say im unattractive or unable to get a girlfriend, however I do feel limited. Reason being is that im 21 years old, but im 5'8 with a small frame (have started lifting in the past few months though) and have what some would probably call a "baby face". I could still easily pull off 17 years old if I completely shaved. I guess I just feel like im limited to a woman that also looks younger than her age, or really is younger.
ghost69 Posted December 7, 2007 Posted December 7, 2007 you are 21. you have plenty of time to date. don't sell yourself so short. make some moves. find out what skills you do have if you really think it's the looks preventing you from getting dates. enhance what you know you have.
Inspirational Posted December 7, 2007 Posted December 7, 2007 No one is perfect, you just have to find the one who is right for you in every single way. If that means that you have to find someone who is also small framed and looks young, then so be it. I'm sure you don't want some overly tall person who would have to bend down to kiss you. Find someone that meets your desires and go for it. Don't put to much empahasis on the qualities you don't like and start loving yourself again!
JeckyllNHyde Posted December 7, 2007 Posted December 7, 2007 Alright so im not gonna put myself down and say im unattractive or unable to get a girlfriend, however I do feel limited. Reason being is that im 21 years old, but im 5'8 with a small frame (have started lifting in the past few months though) and have what some would probably call a "baby face". I could still easily pull off 17 years old if I completely shaved. I guess I just feel like im limited to a woman that also looks younger than her age, or really is younger. Perhaps so. Maybe you are limited to women 21 and younger, although most girls your age go for the older guys, who are 22 and older. And the ones who ae 18 go for the ones 21 mostly, regardless of looks. SO I wouldn't really blame it on your looks. But I think also most girls know that age is nothing but a number, so say you meet a girl who is 23? She won't discount you for your age if you seem "mature". As far as the bodyframe and stuff, seems pretty normal to me. Plus your lifting so I'm sure over time you will gain more muscles and develope an even better "bulkier" bodyframe. Babyfaces! Oh! Girls love that I think. Be happy you are blessed with that and have no acne man... No scarring and stuff and no annoying acne to deal with either, one less big problem to deal with when maintaining eye contact and stuff with the ladies. Like some posters said: work with what you got/enhance your looks.
MrMango Posted December 7, 2007 Author Posted December 7, 2007 Alright no more stupid worries about that.
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