I am officially confused now!! Plz help with this..

[breakupmoveon]

I am talking to a girl who lives 200 miles away and have hung out with her twice. Haven't seen her in a week, but have an opportunity to go to a party tomarow. Please follow: (these were sent in the afternoon)

 

Her text to me: 4 reasons y u should come. 1. my sis is coming, 2. our beer pong table is kicka55, 3. bought 18 bud light, will need help drinking them, 4. just washed my sheets

 

I wrote back: (1-3 nothing much) 4. does this mean ur sheets have reason 2 get dirty again, ha

 

She responds: ...sheets werent "dirty" but i did just wash em...call when ur not busy if u want. pretty sure i beat you

 

I wrote back something unsubstantial.

 

Tonight i am totally confused , please follow real quick:

 

Her text to me: you can bring your friend and his gf, they might wanna bring a blanket but ive got u covered

 

I respond something a bit witty and comical, then this is what killed me:

 

Her final text: My sister and i are small, we can make room 4 u too we'll be warm and cozy

 

what the heck????????

 

My final text is: "oh, i was unaware of a 3rd body in there too. whatev

 

ANYONE??? is she testing me? is this a joke? did i misread her? shes 23, im 25

[leo_s84]

man she's definitely flirting very heavily with you... are you up for a threesome? hehehe

[breakupmoveon]

i knew i would get a response concerning the possibilty of a 3 some. well her sis has a bf. so its not something plausible.

 

if its not a 3 some, then i totally misread all these flirts thus far. that or she is testing me to see if i will still come now. i dont get it

[Censored]

Dude, she is just flirting with you in a major fashion WITHOUT letting you know exactly what is happening. That's the whole point of flirting. No, you are NOT going to get it on with her and her sister. Just her

 

Ohhhhh, you lucky man, she is forward in a great kinda way.

[ghost69]

what is the location of the party? i'm on my way.

 

bro, get to that party. she wants to hook up.

[Dating Coach]

You better got to that party and have some wild sex. That's all I've got to say.

[ghost69]

i'd be embarrassed for all men if you don't go. what is there to question here?

[breakupmoveon]

the location of the party is east of the mississippi

 

my questioning came from her last text involving her sister being in the same bed as us, i find it weird

 

im going though, and will update you all

[ghost69]

the location of the party is east of the mississippi

 

my questioning came from her last text involving her sister being in the same bed as us, i find it weird

 

im going though, and will update you all

 

not weird. just go and find out. nothing like some accidental hand slippage and touching. woops. sorry. haha

[Need_some_help]

Hey, can you give me directions to the party, cuz if you dont hit it, i certainly will.

 

It is not weird at all that she said that about her sister. She is just being playful and you are taking it way too literally. But if you play your cards right anything is possible.

 

Are you not willing to share a bed with her and her sister?

[ghost69]

Hey, can you give me directions to the party, cuz if you dont hit it, i certainly will.

 

It is not weird at all that she said that about her sister. She is just being playful and you are taking it way too literally. But if you play your cards right anything is possible.

 

Are you not willing to share a bed with her and her sister?

 

if you are 3rd-legged you should.

[breakupmoveon]

update for you all

 

Got to party, didn't pay too much attention to her during the party. Talked to a lot of other people over the course of 2 - 3 hours, but probably 5-10 minutes worth was to her. During a quick photo shoot halfway thru the party, I initiated a kiss, which turned into a 5 second makeout session. But people eventually left, and I was invited to the bed. Lights turned off and it was pretty much a heavy petting/makeout session for 3 hours. Got her topless and in her thong. I was in my boxers. She grabbed for my meat stick a little bit, but never finished the job. We slept for 3 hours, then did another 2 hours of heavy petting. Still didnt get off though. I was lightly caressing outside her thong her vaginal area, and occasionally licking her nips. She liked. Anyways, that was that. I texted her tonight I had a great time etc, she said the same. I responded back "next time I will be sure to finish the job" and she responded "haha that sounds great

 

She could turn into a friends with benefits, or could blossom into a relationship. I would prefer a relationship, beause I wouldnt want her jerking off another few dudes in between when we fool around, and Im sure she feels the same (except of course i wont be jerking off dudes).

[Batya33]

she doesn't sound like relationship material if you are looking for a lady to be involved with. She sounds like she likes to hook up and send raunchy texts to get her in the mood to hook up.

[ghost69]

sounded like she wanted you to finish it that night.

[Dating Coach]

And you didn't complete the act that night, why?

[breakupmoveon]

Well I think i am painting a picture with you guys that makes her come accross as only wanting a piece. I dont think it is neccesarily true however. We talked on Sunday night for an hour and a half on the phone. We have talked a couple other times for an hour each. I am trying to steer this whole thing away from FWB and I guess time will tell. Plus I did not go for the homerun because I would have felt bad/used her. Maybe I am old fashioned.

[ghost69]

who says she wants FWB. she wanted to hook up.

[breakupmoveon]

I agree she probably woudn't have minded if we would have "hooked up." I will never know if she would have allowed me to go the whole way. I have never had sex with a girl I have just met a week beforehand, and hold myself to higher standards. I would rather hold out until the right time and after getting to know her more. Whether or not she is on that same page as me is irrelevant. But I guess I will see how it goes.

[Dating Coach]

Well I think i am painting a picture with you guys that makes her come accross as only wanting a piece. I dont think it is neccesarily true however. We talked on Sunday night for an hour and a half on the phone. We have talked a couple other times for an hour each. I am trying to steer this whole thing away from FWB and I guess time will tell. Plus I did not go for the homerun because I would have felt bad/used her. Maybe I am old fashioned.

 

Don't worry, you're not painting a picture that she only wants a piece, but you've definitely painted the picture that she wants a piece, and wanted it that night. Playing Mr. Respectful and trying to wait when she wants to is a bad move. Trust me. Been there, done that.

[Dating Coach]

I agree she probably woudn't have minded if we would have "hooked up." I will never know if she would have allowed me to go the whole way. I have never had sex with a girl I have just met a week beforehand, and hold myself to higher standards. I would rather hold out until the right time and after getting to know her more. Whether or not she is on that same page as me is irrelevant. But I guess I will see how it goes.

 

If that's your standards then stick by them, just be prepared to kill the interest of some girls that are ready to get down and you don't pull the trigger. Just because they want to get down doesn't mean they aren't worthy girls, sex is a natural thing. Don't be afraid of it.