LittleMadmoiselle Posted December 7, 2007 Posted December 7, 2007 It's jarring when someone you really loved and cared for and shared your life with for a good year doesn't call or acknowledge your birthday. I hate to admit that a piece of me was really hoping he'd message or call. I know he knows it's my special day and he's probably thinking about me, but I just feel so damn lonely...I really was happy that he was going to celebrate my birthday with me this year, and now he's completely out of the picture. I feel so sad. I feel dumb for crying all day. I've never had a birthday like this before. I wish I could go and party with my friends and completely forgot about this nonsense, but I can't. And it's been 4 stupid months of this back and forth feeling. And then I have Christmas to get over, too! Just needed to get this out. Thanks for reading.
auburnslp Posted December 7, 2007 Posted December 7, 2007 It's hard, and I am sorry you are dealing with it. But it is also a wake up call telling you to begin to take real steps to moving on. Next year you will have a much better day! Breaking up is so hard, but think about it this way-if it's not meant to be, pick yourself up and brush yourself off, smile, and look forward to finding the REAL love of your life, because this one wasn't it. Things get so much better with time...
keenan Posted December 7, 2007 Posted December 7, 2007 Mmmm. I had one of those. I'm sorry, I know it hurts. Happy birthday, LM!
BellaDonna Posted December 7, 2007 Posted December 7, 2007 Awwwwww. I'm very sorry. Things will get better, and you will have a good year. Happy Birthday! You should treat yourself to an exceptionally HUGE piece of cake if you have not already. BellaDonna
Sadman84 Posted December 7, 2007 Posted December 7, 2007 If it helps any i bet more than half the people on this forum have already felt this feeling. You will survive i promise!!! Also i took me all i had to not call my ex on her birthday, mine was 3 days later and i got no call. Its just part of the process.
HajiMaji Posted December 7, 2007 Posted December 7, 2007 You are gonna get through this!!! I know it can seem bad now, but time will pass and you will heal. Im sorry you have to feel bad now, but you are doing your best. Keep that up and give this whole thing time. Soon enough youll have a great partner to make your birthdays awesome.
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