misshimalready Posted December 6, 2007 Posted December 6, 2007 i'm gonna see my ex's dad, he's my mechanic and my car needs an oil change. if i see him what do i do? do i talk to him or not? how should i act? stupid questions i know, but i'm freaking out....
-BK- Posted December 6, 2007 Posted December 6, 2007 If you see him, you say hi. If he asks how you are doing, you tell him you've been great. If he asks you anything about the relationship, you tell him you don't feel comfortable talking to him about that. You look confident, remain friendly the whole time, and you say that it was nice to see him. You don't mention his son... ever.
DN Posted December 6, 2007 Posted December 6, 2007 Are you going for the oil change hoping to see him? Try not to find excuses to do that. An oil change can be done cheaply by someone else.
misshimalready Posted December 6, 2007 Author Posted December 6, 2007 thanks, great advise... btw i love his dad... and i think he cares about me a lot too. my ex and i are in ok terms, i'm just freaking out about seeing him, and him ignoring me or something along those lines.
jul-els Posted December 7, 2007 Posted December 7, 2007 Oil changes are cheap and readily available. Save yourself the stress and go elsewhere.
auburnslp Posted December 7, 2007 Posted December 7, 2007 I agree...get it done elsewhere...you are dragging it out if you remain in contact with his family-no need for that.
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