another situation!

[x_perfect_stranger_x]

Ok, what would you do if your bf says that he loves you etc but you find out later on that he has commented on another girls myspace telling her that shes very beautiful and has beautiful eyes and that they should talk on msn because its easir?

 

 

 

 

BTW what happened to the list on top of the main page showing those who are online? My status still says display but nothing comes up! LOL

[niczeegs]

Wow - I think you should confront him about this. Or, at least I would.

[x_perfect_stranger_x]

yeh I want to but if he has something to hide etc he would lie anyway. As if he'l tell me the truth. Thanks 4 replyin!!

[niczeegs]

yeh I want to but if he has something to hide etc he would lie anyway. As if he'l tell me the truth. Thanks 4 replyin!!

 

Well, he can't really lie about this one. You have proof! Take a print screen shot and show him and be like "What the hell is up?! If you actually did love me, why are you flirting with other girls?" You need to know answers before you fully give him your heart. I don't want to see you get hurt.

[Gratsy]

I think I'd break up with him because now I'd know what the content of his character is. I also wouldn't let it bug me too much...it takes a long time to find out what a person is really made of.

[x_perfect_stranger_x]

hmm should I do this face to face or over the phone?? Its just annoying, I dont want to look like an idiot, and him thinkin im so stupid and guilable

[arwen]

Ok, what would you do if your bf says that he loves you etc but you find out later on that he has commented on another girls myspace telling her that shes very beautiful and has beautiful eyes and that they should talk on msn because its easir?

 

 

 

 

BTW what happened to the list on top of the main page showing those who are online? My status still says display but nothing comes up! LOL

 

Hey girl,

 

I'd be quite angry in your situation, in fact I'd consider this as a dealbreaker. He is with you, so YOU should be the one he tells she is gorgeous, etc. He sounds awfully immature. You deserve a better bf and you can tell him in any way that you like. Face to face is the most mature way, meet him somewhere in public.

 

As for the forum, there has been an update of the software that is being used for this forum and this is the reason for the change- information about the consequences will be posted when the update is complete and running.

 

Arwen

[raffi_FL]

I would consider it a dealbreaker too. That is a very shady thing to be writing to another girl, especially if he is says he is in love with you. A lot of guys don't think they will get caught for the things they do or say online, but it is just as bad as saying it to a girl in person.

 

You could always let him know what you think of him by leaving him a myspace comment since he likes those so much but I guess doing it in person would be more mature.

[breath.o.fresh.air]

As if he'l tell me the truth.

 

If you don't trust the guy, why are you with him? It sounds like you may want to rethink this relationship. If you break up with him, do it face-to-face.

 

As far as the comments on MySpace, I personally would confront him about them, and go from there. A lack of trust is much more worrisome to me than the comments, though.

[Jayar]

Dealbreaker... There's nothing he can say that will make this okay. And do it however you feel the best way will be for you, so that you don't get sucked in by your affection for him, and allow him to "justify" this.

 

Good luck!

[Jayar]

If you don't trust the guy, why are you with him? It sounds like you may want to rethink this relationship. If you break up with him, do it face-to-face.

 

As far as the comments on MySpace, I personally would confront him about them, and go from there. A lack of trust is much more worrisome to me than the comments, though.

 

Well, now that's not really fair... By the sounds of it she trusted him just fine until he ruined it. Of COURSE he's not going to tell the truth. That's not a trust issue for her, that's the fact that he'll do what every other guy on the entire planet will do and that's say it's just innocent/flirting/he wasn't really going to talk to her... Bah!

[JeckyllNHyde]

Dealbreaker... There's nothing he can say that will make this okay. And do it however you feel the best way will be for you, so that you don't get sucked in by your affection for him, and allow him to "justify" this.

 

Good luck!

 

I agree. and chances are huge he will deny deny deny and make up some lame excuse.

[darkpumpkin]

Dealbreaker... There's nothing he can say that will make this okay. And do it however you feel the best way will be for you, so that you don't get sucked in by your affection for him, and allow him to "justify" this.

 

Good luck!

 

 

I completely agree. Do what you need to do but think, even if he says the words to make this right can you believe he will never do this again. Whats worse will you never check to see if he's messaging other girls?

[Gratsy]

I'd just say, "I don't think its working out."If he asks why, then just say, " because I don't want to date a womanizer." If he asks why, tell him what you saw. If he tries to say anything else, you could get more specific or do what I'd do and say, "Okay, this really isn't up for discussion. Its been nice talking to you...if you want to be my friend thats perfectly fine with me. Otherwise, have a nice life. I really have to catch my bus/plane/car/taxi because I have (something____fill in blank) to do and it starts in five minutes.