Check me out, why?

[winchester3]

I was at the Mall today with my lady friend. Not my girlfriend but a friend of mind who's a girl. We where shopping for an anniversary gift for my girlfriend but thats not the point. When ever I'm out with girls in a public place why is it that i get checked out 5X as often then when I'm walking alone? This isn't just a one day occurring fluke, I've noticed this on many occasions before. Any insight as to why ladies check guys out more when their with another girl?

[Angel_baby]

Girls will view you as harder to get since you are spoken for

[Jayar]

Yup, we figure if you're with someone (especially if she's really, really pretty) you must be a great catch! It's probably illogical, but it's almost subconscious.

[winchester3]

Ok. Lets say i call out one of these girls checking me out and question her about it. She's very open minded and tells her way of thinking. Then explain to her that I'm just friends with the girl I'm with. Will she still view me as hard to get or just another guy?

[ftheunion]

I dunno if that would work. It is competition for girls. Women want guys that are not available to them.

 

Girls always talk about hot guys, yet no matter how much they hang out with them it seems that it never progresses or it doesn't last cause he screws another girl before long.

 

 

When someone is single, no females want him. When he has a girlfriend and they go around in public, then the girls start having interest and stuff.

 

Its rediculous but holds up.

[crookster_man]

Yup, we figure if you're with someone (especially if she's really, really pretty) you must be a great catch! It's probably illogical, but it's almost subconscious.

 

 

Lol, women! and you guys think men are complicated!

[ftheunion]

Lol, women! and you guys think men are complicated!

 

I concur in full.

[Boughs]

Women are like us in the competition... but women's competition is more out of spite instead of personal gain.

 

But perhaps I'm just cynical towards women, they break hearts.

[Phaser]

Thats why a wingwoman can help you when you are out.

[jayn-16]

When you are seen with a girl, other girls feel that you have the right qualities to make a great partner. This is because you "seem" to have got the approval of the other girl (who is with you). One of my male friends has also reported the same thing.

 

When my profile on a website displays testimonials, pics, messages....etc from my female friends, I get a lot of hits from unknown girls. This has worked ALL the time. It does not work when you put up stuff from your male friends on your profile.

 

Acceptance from female friends is a certificate which says that you are quality material !!!

[ghost69]

it's not just the competition. if they remotely find you attractive, they would be like, 'what does she have that i don't.' and if you weren't attractive, they be like 'what does he have to keep her around? big weiner, tons of money, really funny?' they think this way. plus, you probably are walking around with the 'i don't care' aura. women like that.

[Jayar]

Lol, women! and you guys think men are complicated!

 

No way! Not me! Men are adorably simple... I don't envy you guys, having to deal with us.

[Dating Coach]

I was at the Mall today with my lady friend. Not my girlfriend but a friend of mind who's a girl. We where shopping for an anniversary gift for my girlfriend but thats not the point. When ever I'm out with girls in a public place why is it that i get checked out 5X as often then when I'm walking alone? This isn't just a one day occurring fluke, I've noticed this on many occasions before. Any insight as to why ladies check guys out more when their with another girl?

 

Having an attractive woman around you makes you look better. If other girls see an attractive girl with you, you must have something about you to win her over. So that displays High Value.

[amtjrtcet]

A woman sees a guy she finds attractive with another woman and she starts sizing her up. Like ghost said "what's she go that I don't". Then with some women its about getting the guy to notice her even while he's with someone else, its empowering to them. Yes, we're very complicated creatures.

[Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll]

I was at the Mall today with my lady friend. Not my girlfriend but a friend of mind who's a girl. We where shopping for an anniversary gift for my girlfriend but thats not the point. When ever I'm out with girls in a public place why is it that i get checked out 5X as often then when I'm walking alone? This isn't just a one day occurring fluke, I've noticed this on many occasions before. Any insight as to why ladies check guys out more when their with another girl?

 

beacuse your with someone. happened to me also....

[ghost69]

A woman sees a guy she finds attractive with another woman and she starts sizing her up. Like ghost said "what's she go that I don't". Then with some women its about getting the guy to notice her even while he's with someone else, its empowering to them. Yes, we're very complicated creatures.

 

i already know this. so it doesn't bug me. it might bug the woman i'm with. but usually if it does bug her, it means she is insecure and i probably won't be with her anyways. now, if some other girl just came up and blatantly started flirting with me right in front of her, every right to be mad.

[winchester3]

Wow, that is wack. So girls want what they can't have and then when/if they get him they don't want him any more? This is confusing stuff.

[Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll]

Wow, that is wack. So girls want what they can't have and then when/if they get him they don't want him any more? This is confusing stuff.

 

if you were a woman you'd understand

[ghost69]

if you were a woman you'd understand

 

haha. i love this information being explained by these womens. i know exactly what it means and how to act. the women that want all the attention still don't get it from me. i am romantic. however, my time is given depending on the likeness of the woman. that is hard to explain.

[winchester3]

if you were a woman you'd understand

 

Maybe you women could try explaining this to me or men in general. I think of my self as a fairly logical person, but I'm not seeing the logical thinking behind this.

[ghost69]

it's a push n pull situation. when you give too much you saturate the fire. when you don't give enough it burns out. got it?

[winchester3]

I wasn't really talking about giving any, I was looking for a female perspective as to why they think that way and what's the logic behind it?

[ghost69]

that is the logic behind it though. most of the girls here have posted that concept too.

[servedcold]

It is what it is. Use this whenever you have the opportunity and just reap the benefits of it.