Locking eyes

[mwanake]

What does it mean when a guy wants to lock eyes with you, while making love?

[Boughtandpaidfor]

....he wants to see where he's going.

 

Seriously tho, I guess he wants to see his ego rewarded by the look of utter shock and joy brought on by

1. he having the biggest thang in the world ever

2. this being the best use of said thang, and indeed anythang, in your life.

3. thereforeeee, he is great and you have a great relationship.

 

fair enough isn't it? everyone gets performance anxiety. You want to know you're doing a good job.

[Fisch]

I am no expert, but ethology says that couples with an intimate connection often lock eyes for extended periods of time. Beyond that, it's anyone's guess, although I'm sure his input would be fairly helpful.

[rockr]

ive heard this but im not sure , guys play this game of locking eyes and see their partner's response if they can match it or they look away ... to find out if you are into the guy sexually or not.

[Papillion]

What does it mean when a guy wants to lock eyes with you, while making love?

 

means he wants to totally connect with you.

[arwen]

If my partner does this, it feels exactly how Papillion describes it. Very very intense feeling. But not if it is done so continuously (never happens with my bf, but has in the past), that makes me feel very aware of myself and uncomfortable.

 

How does it feel to you, mwanake? Do you mean locking eyes for a moment, or the whole time?

 

Arwen

[Spugly Fuglet]

There are two things one good one bad

 

Good

 

he wonts afamation from you thats hes doing things right not just body but mind, that you are contented with him and all that he dos

 

Bad

 

Power and control

He seeks to master you, dominate and control, he wont to feel you under his power becouse it makes him feel better

[doyathink]

Cross your eyes once, see what he says.

 

I would assume he's wanting to see your lust for him. Better then burying his head in the pillow, face first.

 

Spug, you tha man, I like your description.

[Cardinal]

I do it b/c I know it adds a lot of intensity and excitement for both of us. It can easily bring on an orgasm.

 

Kind of a mind-fk if you will.

[love4life]

My ex did this the WHOLE time, every time. Even sometimes when we'd be kissing during, I'd open my eyes and he'd be staring at me.

 

At the time I thought all this was romantic and thought it was intimacy, but in hindsight, when I recall those memories, the look in his eyes (as compared to a previous BF with whom I occasionally, briefly made eye contact with) was kind of empty and vacant. Like he was a robot or something and, actually, lacking in passion. Kind of creeps me out now.

 

But he's passionless about life and people, anyway - again, another post-break-up revelation.

[anggrace]

I love locking eyes! Unless of coarse it's a vacant look. I think a I]deep[/i] long locking of eyes is a wonderful thing!!! Makes me feel connected. It's also is a great thing to visualize/recall when you can't be together.

[ryan123]

I love eye contact during intercourse. Not(as other posters said) because it gives me "power," but because I feel so much closer with her. Especially when we say our "I love yous" while staring at each other. I think it's so hot also to see her facial expressions whilst I please her.

[glitter_dreams]

It's more passionate. The power play thing can be fun too... One of my fond memories involved someone I was having casual (but passionate!) sex with pulling my head towards him during sex and commanding me "look at me when I'm * * * * ing you!".

[JellyB]

The look in his eyes made me feel more. Like a connection rather than just intimacy.

[mwanake]

I am a bit shy, yes it does make me very aware, it was also our first time. The thing is i had my eyes closed, and he held my face and kinda told me to look at him. I did but for a little bit, then turned away.

[benga]

Locking eyes is a good thing. It means connection. I am a guy and its no power thing. Test it, even when you are on top!!!

 

I cant imagine having sex with my eyes shut.... ha ha ha

[ghost69]

means he is into you or he likes to see the power he has over you.