Avoid silence

[i miss her 2]

How can you avoid too much silence during a date? What about when it's in a 2 year relationship. Is silence just inevitiable at that point or does it mean you aren't compatible?

[Lana0120]

I think it depends. Generally, yes, you would expect to be talking a lot, however you should have 'comfortable silences' as well. I think it depends on the other factors in your relationship as to whether it would mean you were incompatible and whether things have changed over those two years. People can grow apart.

[i miss her 2]

We have so much in common that we are both sometimes quiet people. We are very much alike.

[lukeb]

Uncomfortable silences even after 2 years you've met would mean there are other issues I think. Just always having to be busy and having to have a conversation going at all times probably takes a persons mind off of what is really bothering them.

[ghost69]

i talk a lot. 2 years into it or a first meeting. i can speak off tangent too. maybe ADD, i dunno. or whatever it's called. it's never been a problem then. if it was 2 years into it, i will bring up something we experienced together. even if it's just an episode of some tv show we watched.