why iam living

[zeena]

why i am living

 

 

 

i dont know from where i shall start,iam just sad all the time and depressed,ihave a good life,a wonderfull mam and 3 great sisters,a great gob,but the problem is my father,he ruined my life ,he abused me all my life emotionly and phisicly,and i just cant get over this,i dont have self confidence,i am afraid all the time and i dont have a goal in my life to achieve,help me please.

[RelaxByWater84]

Have you sought councelling for the abuse?

 

Why are you living? There is a great chance that someone will be coming along who has gone through the same thing. It is comforting for others to know that another has gone through what they went through and can understand them when they talk about it. A lot of times our struggles and weaknesses can become our strengths.

[zeena]

i cant try counsiling,if my dad finds out ,he will be furious and it will cause for me alot of problems

[RelaxByWater84]

i cant try counsiling,if my dad finds out ,he will be furious and it will cause for me alot of problems

 

Are you in the US? If so there are a lot of free clinics that will help you out. Are you still a minor? Are you still on your parents insurance?

[zeena]

no ,i live in the middle east , its inpossible there

[zeena]

and iam 19 ,but my dad controls the family

[RelaxByWater84]

And usually in Middle Eastern cultures you as a woman have very little say in anything. One of my friends is from there and she told me about her life. There is a technique my roommate who is a psychology major told me about. You take a chair and pretend the person you are upset with is in the chair and you tell "them" how you feel. Its a great way to get out feelings. I've used it and it has helped.

[zeena]

thanks very much coffee girl,i apreciate your advices

[RelaxByWater84]

No problem, I do hope things get better for you.