healthy ways to control libido (really embarassing)

[Stinkweed]

I was extremely hesitant to post, because it seems like this comes and goes as it pleases, plus it is embarrassing. But I guess it'd still be good to know... Ever since I turned 18, I think, on and off, there's been times when it just constantly feels like my pants are going to explode. I mean, fortunately nothing embarrassed has happened, but it's like, ok, these last couple of weeks, everytime a decent-looking girl passes by, I can't take my eyes off her backside... and it really sucks, because it kinda feels disrespectful (like I shouldn't be treating her different from anyone else, including guys). I don't really watch porn or anything, because I dislike it (I could write an entire post about why I dislike it, so I've got my reasons). I don't really talk to any women anymore, but I know that this would only make it harder to socialize...

 

I already have kind of a hard time socializing with just people in general, but at least it seems that with guys it would be more possible than with girls when this happened. I know there shouldn't be a difference, like I said before, but it's difficult to talk the same way to girl and you would talk to a guy, when you can barely contain the desire to start humping something. This is really embarrassing for me to post about... twice (I believe maybe last year I posted about this... well guess what, it's still here)... But is there something wrong with me, or am I just a "normal" socially awkward 20 year old guy, or what? It goes away, mostly when I feel low, which has happened periodically for long periods of time these last two years (since I started college)...

[ghost69]

stroke it before class if it's that bad. get those juices outta ur body. happens to all guys. 95% at least. hormones are ragin.

[Lionel Hutz]

I think it get worse for me as I get older too. I get nervous that other people are looking at me look at her.HAHAHA its natural though and girls dress certain ways for attention i've noticed.

[Stinkweed]

Well it is pretty bad... I mean, nothing embarrassing (you know what I'm talking about) has happened, but still...

[sddeaston]

Embrace it. Find one of those lovely young ladies and introduce her to your "problem". Not in front of everyone, of course

[Stinkweed]

Embrace it. Find one of those lovely young ladies and introduce her to your "problem". Not in front of everyone, of course

 

 

 

haha, now that would be funny. risky, but funny.

[winchester3]

I don't really see a problem with staring at pretty girls, what ever part you may be staring it. Just remember staring at women is like staring at the sun. Just taking a look is ok, but stare too long and you'll get burned.