girl I like, but I don't know whats right

[rockdude82]

Hi

 

I'm 25 years old never had a girlfriend but recently I met this girl online shes really pretty and really nice to talk too, met up once with her went great and I would love to ask her out again and I know shes been hinting abit for us to go out, but I'm not sure I'm doing the right thing,.........(I really tend to over analyze everything in my mind which holds me me back from alot of things")

 

Thing is she has a 3 year old daughter and I just a bit worried that maybe I would be missing out on things I've never done before as couples do without kids, I know she wants the same things I want, like to go out together for meals cinema, holidays doing things as couples do, but would that happen with her having a daughter who shes a full time mum to when shes not working, I know her parents can help out though.

I don't know if I would be any good with kids too, don't have any experience with them, but I do like kids and would love to have one.

 

Sex too!! because I've never been with anyone before I abit worried if I would be missing out on anything there too, is it much different after kids you know what i mean does feel much different.

 

I've been thinking about her all the time I would love to get close to her but my heads working overtime abit with all these thoughts of the unknown.

 

I feel really horrible about feeling like this, I'm sorry if any single parents read this, I just wish I had a bit more experience.

 

I would love to get get some replys from you guys and gals saying yeah don't worry about all that stuff and go for it but I'm not sure I'm going to hear that.

[Dating Coach]

Just go out and have fun. Stay off of serious topic, make no promises, and just enjoy each others company. That's it man. No harm in that. What happens, happens. Get the experience.

[that.girl]

I am with dating coach on this one. Take it slow and dont preoccupy yourself with "getting serious" could it be that your just overwhelmed about the possibility of a relationship? Just go slow and have fun. Don't think about it so much (easier said than done i know)

[ghost69]

i don't date women that have kids. but i have seen some a couple times. it's hard. too much emotion can come out. resentment towards men if they father is a loser, etc.