New Guy and Just came home from a Date and have a Question

[ConfusedDater]

Went out tonight with this beautful women, and I had my shy moments but I think I did well overall. Date ended with a hug and she said she would call me to let me know she arrived home.

 

If she calls is that a good sign?

 

if she doesn't call is that a bad sign?

 

 

Confused as always when it comes to First Dates

[PrincessBOT]

It may be to early to tell. But, try not to over think it. Keep it light. If she doesn't call, call her. Say something like I didn't hear from you and wanted to make sure you got home safely. But don't linger, make it quick, maybe even text it. No one can think bad of that, it shows you care.

[Entropy Smith]

Why don't you give her a chance to get home before asking the question? Is it an 18 hour drive or something?

[ConfusedDater]

I guess I'm anxious to know because she is my Dream girl. She is everything I want in a girlfriend, physically and mentally. She didn't call so I will contact her on Monday letting her know I had a good Time.

 

 

BTW: the plan was just for us to talk to each other at Starbucks but we ended up going to dinner after being at the cafe for a hour.

[servedcold]

I guess I'm anxious to know because she is my Dream girl. She is everything I want in a girlfriend, physically and mentally.

 

OK sure, you can be attracted to her physically at this point, but the above statement is setting you up for disappointment, with this one and women in the future. You haven't kissed this girl or seen her without clothes, seen how she moves, what she is like sexually, so how on earth could you know she is everything you want physically? and there's no way you could know if she is everything mentally. It takes time and contact to determine these things, and you are already talking yourself into being in love with her. Step back, get some perspective, meet lots of women. Take your time and don't view her through rose colored glasses. You have this woman on a pedestal, and at the very least, that is going to kill the chances of her becoming attracted to you. Best wishes.

[annie24]

OK sure, you can be attracted to her physically at this point, but the above statement is setting you up for disappointment, with this one and women in the future. You haven't kissed this girl or seen her without clothes, seen how she moves, what she is like sexually, so how on earth could you know she is everything you want physically? and there's no way you could know if she is everything mentally. It takes time and contact to determine these things, and you are already talking yourself into being in love with her. Step back, get some perspective, meet lots of women. Take your time and don't view her through rose colored glasses. You have this woman on a pedestal, and at the very least, that is going to kill the chances of her becoming attracted to you. Best wishes.

 

I agree!!!! You barely know her, you can't love her. You like the version of her you have in your head, not the real her. get to know her.

[servedcold]

I agree!!!! You barely know her, you can't love her. You like the version of her you have in your head, not the real her. get to know her.

 

See, OP, there's a female perspective, straight from the mouth of Moderator Kitteh, who is all knowing with respect to these matters...

[ConfusedDater]

I agree!!!! You barely know her, you can't love her. You like the version of her you have in your head, not the real her. get to know her.

 

I didn't say I love her-lol She is someone who I want to know better and she more of.

[ghost69]

did she call you?

[ConfusedDater]

did she call you?

 

 

 

No not yet.

[ghost69]

hmmm. wait it out.