Crushed....and don't know what to do

[Quixotic]

I've been silly, so very silly!

 

I started seeing someone in January, found out he was married in February, called off the relationship there and then but we kept in touch and we started seeing each other again shortly afterward.....to cut a long story short we fell in love with each other, even though it was wrong and I have felt immense guilt over the past few months I couldn't let go. There have been so many promises from his....promising that he will leave but he hasn't. The situation is still the same as 6/7 months ago.

 

I ended our relationship yesterday and asked him not to contact me, he is continually texting me and I just can't stand it anymore, i've not replied to any of them since yesterday lunchtime but the messages are so awful, I feel he emotionally blackmailing me saying things like "i can't believe you are doing this to me, I thought I had found the girl I wanted to spend the rest of my life with.....I'm hurting so much"

 

Well i'm hurting too, I can't cope with his hurt too and the urge to reply is so strong, I don't know what to do. Do i reply and risk getting into an argurment through texting or do I just ignore them and feel like a complete * * * * * .

 

It's too hard

 

Sorry for the long first post

[bustertypsy]

Sadly by getting involved with a married man,guaranteed you would be where you are now,sooner or later.I know at the time you don't think of the consequences,but the pain is just as sharp as any relationship ending.

 

I think you need to look at things with logic.He is married and if he loved you he would have left his wife.He is a selfish,manipulating man and you need to break free from him.Go total NC and don't look back.It won't be easy,but it's your best option.Your on a return ticket to brokenheartsville if you continue,so begin today and start healing,for tomorrow