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[Plain Curious]

This girl I like might break up with her boyfriend err I think they already broke up today! I'm not sure what's going on but today her boyfriend told me that he needed to talk to me about something lmao! then in my last class of the day were the girl I like is at was physically flirting with me, and kept blushing and other good stuff! I'm sooo confused, I guess tomorrow I'll see if they're going out still. If not, I'm going in

 

Yo I got a question lets say we do become b-friend a g-friend, any ideas for a first date? btw we are both 17. And we can't drive lol.

 

EDIT- I don't know why her boyfriend wants to talk to me, maybe she told him something?

[Mythical_Suicide]

Maybe you should wait awhile before jumping the wagon on this one..

 

It's never good to get into a relationship with anyone just getting out of another one. You could just be a rebound, and while it seems like a good idea at first it will probably get old quickly for her.

[Plain Curious]

Ok, your right. Thanks.

EDIT- wat if she wants me to ask her out?

[Mythical_Suicide]

I still think you should wait, you really dont want to be the rebound relationship do ya? I mean, from what i'm getting you really like this chic and if that's true then it's not really what you need. If you both really like each other then the opportunity will still be there once shes over this relationship shes in now

[Plain Curious]

Ok so basically we should wait .

[ActionJackson]

Well, seeing what someof your previous post were about, Good job. And yeah dont jump the gun. If her ex/boyfriend want to talk to you it's probably not about something good. Maybe they had a fight and she spilled it out about her feelings for you and the ex/bf wants you to say away from her Idk.

 

But still keep in contact with her, maybe a little flirting. Find out how she truly feels about you and whats going on with the ex/bf before doing much else.

[Plain Curious]

Well, seeing what someof your previous post were about, Good job. And yeah dont jump the gun. If her ex/boyfriend want to talk to you it's probably not about something good. Maybe they had a fight and she spilled it out about her feelings for you and the ex/bf wants you to say away from her Idk.

 

But still keep in contact with her, maybe a little flirting. Find out how she truly feels about you and whats going on with the ex/bf before doing much else.

 

Thanks

 

I guess I'll find out tomorrow what he wants to tell me, I'll keep u guys updated. How can I find out how she feels? I feel like asking her how she feels about me is a bit too early.

[ActionJackson]

Yeah you don't want to ask her directally, or it might damage your chances.

Does she have any friends that you know that you could trust askin? Also, I wouldn't talk about the bf with her either. Just try to bring your relationship with her closer.

[Plain Curious]

Yeah you don't want to ask her directally, or it might damage your chances.

Does she have any friends that you know that you could trust askin? Also, I wouldn't talk about the bf with her either. Just try to bring your relationship with her closer.

 

Ok, hmmm not really her friends are my friends so they'll probally not tell me if she told em not to say anything. Actually I have someone in mind who probally knows.

 

Yeah thats good I didn't talk to her about her bf today, and I was about to too So she will wait no matter how long it takes for us to get closer in our relationship?

[ActionJackson]

I don't think she'll wait forever mate. Honestally If I was in your situation I would really start to flirt with her, seeing as she flirted openly towards you. That way, you all will proabably become closer friends.

 

Did she seem unstable in a sense? Acting a little upset or anything?

 

Also, if you dont know bout it dont sweat it, but do you know how her last relationship went?

[Plain Curious]

I don't think she'll wait forever mate. Honestally If I was in your situation I would really start to flirt with her, seeing as she flirted openly towards you. That way, you all will proabably become closer friends.

 

Did she seem unstable in a sense? Acting a little upset or anything?

 

Also, if you dont know bout it dont sweat it, but do you know how her last relationship went?

 

Ok thanks.

 

No she was very happy, actually it seems every time I talk to her I make her day to be honest.

 

Her last relationship lasted a while around 1 to 2 years. She broke up with him, but I don't know why.

[ActionJackson]

Aight thats a good sign. What about the ex/bf that wanted to talk to you, how did her relationship with him go?

 

Well, devote yourself fully to her without being weird or in a stalkish manor. Basically, Don't go all over the school in between class periods if your classes are far off, depending on how big your school is. I'd say keep her entertained, you know light humor, or doin something stupid that she laughs at (but nothing to serious).

 

And tomorrow I bet youll have to meet with that ex eh? Be prepared to defend yourself. lol just kidding. Just go with your guts on that on nd dont say anthing that might damage your status with her. Otherwise do as

R.Kelly: Flirt.

[Plain Curious]

Aight thats a good sign. What about the ex/bf that wanted to talk to you, how did her relationship with him go?

 

Well, devote yourself fully to her without being weird or in a stalkish manor. Basically, Don't go all over the school in between class periods if your classes are far off, depending on how big your school is. I'd say keep her entertained, you know light humor, or doin something stupid that she laughs at (but nothing to serious).

 

And tomorrow I bet youll have to meet with that ex eh? Be prepared to defend yourself. lol just kidding. Just go with your guts on that on nd dont say anthing that might damage your status with her. Otherwise do as

R.Kelly: Flirt.

 

Hmm..they've been going out for around 3 months now but I knew it wasn't gonna work out because they have opposite interest, and other things.

And he already told her he loves her, and he even made a neckalace saying "he loves (girl's name)" lol. So she probally lost interest.

 

Ok I guess is time to start being more friendly, thnx alot.

 

Lmao funny. Yeah lol I was thinking the same, I better not say something that'll upset her. If he asks if she likes me I'll say as a friend. And if he asks me if I like her wat should I say?

[ActionJackson]

Very Rarely have I seen an ex tell their ex about another person who likes them with this short of a span after breaking up. If he dont talk to her, then I personally (not really givin a hoot about what anyone says about me unless I think their important) wouldn't say anything. But for you..hmm probably something along the lines of "Shes cool and real fun to hang out with."

Only reason that being is because you know a rumor can spread like wildfire around a school and if one of her friends hears like "oh yeah shes fun and alright person" then they may inturperet doubt in your words. I can't think of anything of the top of my mind really, but say something really positive about her nothing to much or too less.

[Plain Curious]

Ok cool thanks, I'm gonna go to sleep good night!

[Dating Coach]

Maybe you should wait awhile before jumping the wagon on this one..

 

It's never good to get into a relationship with anyone just getting out of another one. You could just be a rebound, and while it seems like a good idea at first it will probably get old quickly for her.

 

My fiancee broke up with her first boyfriend, a boyfriend of 18 months, and a week later we started dating. Now we are set to be married.

 

If the girl is ready to date the OP, then she's ready to date. Go for it OP!

[Plain Curious]

My fiancee broke up with her first boyfriend, a boyfriend of 18 months, and a week later we started dating. Now we are set to be married.

 

If the girl is ready to date the OP, then she's ready to date. Go for it OP!

 

I'm having second thoughts man... I remember what you said DiggityDogg about her being a flirt. Like I started noticing that she talks, and gives hugs to other guys but we rarely hug. Like yesterday she was rubbing her knee with my leg, and was blushing. I'M CONFUSED OUT OF MY MIND, like I don't know what she's trynna do. Like my friend asked her boyfriend cause I didn't have a chance to talk to him what he wanted to talk about and he said that his girlfriend said something about me.

 

I don't know what to do!! I feel like I shouldn't get a relationship with a flirter cause I'll get hurt. What u guys think? she's a very flirty but aren't most girls like that? can some1 tell me some qualities I should look for a girl ?

[Dating Coach]

You know why you are confused? Because you are doing n o t h i n g. She is controlling everything. When you're sitting there letting her dictate the pace, initiate all the flirting, running the tables on you, etc... yeah, you're going to be confused. Why don't YOU take charge for once? YOU start running the tables. YOU start flirting. YOU ask her out.

 

Right now you're confused because you're Captain Reaction. She takes initiatives and you are left trying to figure out a response. Stop trying to figure her out, just start doing what you want to do.

[Plain Curious]

I kind of flirted with her today. Like a friend of mines (his gay) had this bod cologne and she let him and me smell this lotion she had, and he let her smell his and she said that the smell made her horny (joking ofcourse) so I told her I put some on for her and I looked her in the eyes and smiled. But that's the closest thing I want to do cause she's use to guys flirting with her first cause she's beautiful, I just don't want to end up like them (they think she likes them so they flirt with her). At the end of class today my friend (another friend) threw a paper ball at her and she was laughing and saying to stop then he told me to throw one at her cause he knows I like her, he said outloud "Throw a ball at her, show her that you like her" and she kept turning around and looking back waiting for me to do something but she saw me with a serious face shruging like I didn't care yeah I know that was probally a bad Idea should have I thrown it?

[ActionJackson]

You've got a few things to improve on. To anwser your first question, She's Playing Hard to Get Thats how women are, Oh and her rubbin her knee against your leg, yeah she was extremely into you that day. Hmm I guess I should of mention yeturaday that if something like that happened that you should just totally be into her as much as she was into you.

 

Most girls I know hug everyone of their guy friends, its just how they are. If you saw her look at you when your friend said that, throw the paper ball or whatever it is when she isnt lookin. Shes into you, so the she knows you into her and walla you are boyfriend girlfriend practically. Also dont seize up a oppritunity to say hello. From what I've seen girls dont like "whats up" that much.

[Plain Curious]

You've got a few things to improve on. To anwser your first question, She's Playing Hard to Get Thats how women are, Oh and her rubbin her knee against your leg, yeah she was extremely into you that day. Hmm I guess I should of mention yeturaday that if something like that happened that you should just totally be into her as much as she was into you.

 

Most girls I know hug everyone of their guy friends, its just how they are. If you saw her look at you when your friend said that, throw the paper ball or whatever it is when she isnt lookin. Shes into you, so the she knows you into her and walla you are boyfriend girlfriend practically. Also dont seize up a oppritunity to say hello. From what I've seen girls dont like "whats up" that much.

 

Thanks, but she's still going out with her boyfriend they haven't broken up. And about the throwing of the paper ball, I'm actually glad I didn't throw it cause I bet she will thinking about that all night but if the next oportunity comes up I'll definetlly do something.

 

Hey wat did u think about the thing I said to her about the cologne?

 

EDIT~ oh yeah and I said hello to her first today

[ActionJackson]

Thanks, but she's still going out with her boyfriend they haven't broken up. And about the throwing of the paper ball, I'm actually glad I didn't throw it cause I bet she will thinking about that all night but if the next oportunity comes up I'll definetlly do something.

 

Hey wat did u think about the thing I said to her about the cologne?

 

EDIT~ oh yeah and I said hello to her first today

 

Yeah you made her laugh. Light jokes that make her laugh are a good thing. Well that sucks kahonies about the boyfriend. Now really all you can do is be friends with her, but nobody said it can't be w/o benifits eh? lol j/k Still engage in conversation and some flirtin but not too much since her nd him are still a couple. All to do now is sit and wait....and then when shes avalible make your move.

[Plain Curious]

Yeah you made her laugh. Light jokes that make her laugh are a good thing. Well that sucks kahonies about the boyfriend. Now really all you can do is be friends with her, but nobody said it can't be w/o benifits eh? lol j/k Still engage in conversation and some flirtin but not too much since her nd him are still a couple. All to do now is sit and wait....and then when shes avalible make your move.

 

Lol. That's kind of the problem I don't want to flirt with her because she has a boyfriend, if she wants me to go the next step she'll have to break up. I think she's still with that boy cause she doesn't want to hurt his feelings after all they were friends before that so she probably doesn't want to ruin the friendship. Tomorrow I HAVE to find out what she told his boyfriend I was looking for him today but couldn't find him. I kind of excited cause it must of been good.

[ActionJackson]

Lol. That's kind of the problem I don't want to flirt with her because she has a boyfriend, if she wants me to go the next step she'll have to break up. I think she's still with that boy cause she doesn't want to hurt his feelings after all they were friends before that so she probably doesn't want to ruin the friendship. Tomorrow I HAVE to find out what she told his boyfriend I was looking for him today but couldn't find him. I kind of excited cause it must of been good.

 

 

I see your point. Casually walk up and after some dialog ask her about the b/f and why he wanted to see you. Kinda of like in a surprised tone "Oh and by the way, (the dudes name) said he wanted to talk to me, do you know why?"

[Plain Curious]

I see your point. Casually walk up and after some dialog ask her about the b/f and why he wanted to see you. Kinda of like in a surprised tone "Oh and by the way, (the dudes name) said he wanted to talk to me, do you know why?"

 

Ok sounds great.

 

I'm thinking I should keep my "status" like it is for now. After I clear some things up I'll be flirty. Sounds good?