Just need to write about it..

[PsLIMBLT]

Hello all...it's been awhile since I was on here. Last time I was on here I was heartbroken, lost, and felt like things would never get better. But let me tell you...things do get better. Just remember to take it one step at a time.

 

Anyways...just wanted to write about what happened to me recently and get other opinion.

 

I've was talking to this girl for about two months. When I started talking to her, I wasn't sure what I wanted (ie. relationship). We hit it off great initially, but then the problem was that I was gone for two weeks after we hit it off. When I returned home, I guess she felt things weren't the same. I was backing off a little because I knew she wanted a relationship and I wasn't sure yet. I asked her to take it slow, but she didn't know what I meant by it. Eventually I decided I would give it a chance and wanted to be serious with the girl. At this time I found out from her that she had been seeing another guy at the same time as me. I was upset but, i got over it. Specially since we weren't together. Anyways...she told me she would stop seeing the other guy. I found out she didn't and didn't tell the guy was going over her house for thanksgiving. So we ended up getting into an argument. The day after I thought we had patched things up, but she said she felt like it was ruined and decided she didn't want to see me anymore, but wanted to remain friends if that was ok with me. I agreed and I havent' talked to her since. This was a few days ago...

 

Now, I can honestly say it sucks a little, because I started to fall for the girl. But I also understand that there was going to be an issue with trust because of what happened. I believe we could have worked it out, but I guess she wasn't willing to do it. Now, I would like to get back with the girl in the future, but I'm just not sure what to think. I have been thinking about her constantly the last few days, specially since we had spoken just about every day for the past two months. Not sure what else to do....I guess just move on...

 

Anyone comments, advice, etc....??

[Ampire]

yes yes it does get better but then it shows its ugly head in another situation....

 

I would talk to her about it, it won't do you any good just sitting there thinking about it....move on one way or another...it was only 2 months so im sure it wont be as hard to get over as your last bout of pain...

[PsLIMBLT]

Yeah, I hear ya...I feel like we talked about it already so I didn't want to push it...her line for not wanting to see me anymore was that "the timing wasn't right for Us." Not sure what she means by that...all she said was that she wanted to be remain friends with me....I said sure, but it still sucks, and I'm not sure if I can do that....

 

Of course, if you asked me what I wanted...I would tell you that I want to just start fresh and be with her...but right now to me that looks unrealistic....