They always stick together..

[Pegasus]

Tonight, my friend and I were sitting in a bar drinking beer. After drinking few of them, world become a lot more clear to us than before. (We both have tremendous respect for good beer).

 

So, the fact of the evening is - beautiful girls always stick together. I mean, there was a group of very hot girls, a group of not so good looking girls, and group of some ugly girls. Separate groups. And people say that there are no "leagues" based on looks.

 

There are. And one more thing - it's unlikely that your not good looking friend (female) will ever introduce you to some really hot friend of hers. That is a fact.

[LBP]

So it has been since the dawn of time.

[amtjrtcet]

I don't know if this holds true to every woman, but I noticed that at my best friends wedding. All of the bridesmaids were beautiful. And even at the bachlorette party, all the women there, gorgeous. I'm not sure why that is. I guess women of similarities just flock together maybe??

[carriebradshawny]

A great generalization under the influence of a great ale. LOL

[JadedStar]

While I agree this does tend to happen sometimes it is more frequently seen in younger women.

 

Women who are 20 are more superficial, less apt to do their own thing and strike out from the crowd so yes, they tend to flock to those who are their same social status, income and looks.

 

As women get older they branch out far more, shedding their lack of confidence of their younger years and make friends based on less physical or tangible things, like personality match.

 

Not sure how old these women were you are referring to but when I go to Happy Hour at our local watering hole the demographic is primarily age 28 - 60 (with younger and older here and there but I am talking the BULK of patrons) and every possible combination of looks and personaltiy you could imagine are all grouped together. The groups that are off on themselves also have a good mix of people.

 

So Pegasus either you are fixating yourself on very young groups of women or the places you frequent have more superficial and shallow patrons. You are 28 so you would be in the main age category of the place I go to, so I am not sure what kind of place you are frequenting now, maybe it caters to younger people. If younger women - ages from 18 - 24 are your main interest then yes, you will see these familiar clusters more often in that age group.

 

The place I go to is primarily comprised of the professional class as well, so mid to upper incomes.

[Pegasus]

So Pegasus either you are fixating yourself on very young groups of women or the places you frequent have more superficial and shallow patrons. You are 28 so you would be in the main age category of the place I go to, so I am not sure what kind of place you are frequenting now, maybe it caters to younger people. If younger women - ages from 18 - 24 are your main interest then yes, you will see these familiar clusters more often in that age group.

 

Jaded, I would say they were probably 23-28 and that is a range I'm fixating on. I don't usually go there (I was there for the first time tonight) so I don't know if that is a usual grouping that happens there.

[JadedStar]

Jaded, I would say they were probably 23-28 and that is a range I'm fixating on. I don't usually go there (I was there for the first time tonight) so I don't know if that is a usual grouping that happens there.

 

I think you will find the groupings by appearance most common with young women vs women of 28 and up...

 

The groups I hang with when i go to our local place range from the very plain to the highly exotic looking and they all co exist very nicely. And egads we're all even friends. LOL

[Siriana]

You should drink beer more often - looks like you had an epiphany.

Thats the truth.

And the answer to the question why is simple: to reduce unnecessary competition.

 

I noticed that I always have friends who are not tall.

Not that I am insisting on having friends of mine hight but it just happens spontaneously.

Somehow I end up with girlfriends who are not over 165??? And I am 158.

Weird.

I gave the best of myself to find a bf who is around 185cm but somehow I can't manage to date man below 190 cm.

Looks like I am their target hight.

Now I need explanation on this one.

If you have it, please prosvijetli me.

[JadedStar]

You should drink beer more often - looks like you had an epiphany.

thats the truth.

And the answer to the question why is simple: to reduce unnecessary competition.

 

But Siriana, if beautiful women all hang together aren't they actually INCREASING their competition if all of their friends are beautful as they are?

[Pegasus]

Now I need explanation on this one.

If you have it, please prosvijetli me.

 

I promise, next time I get half-drunk, I will ;-)

 

But Siriana, if beautiful women all hang together aren't they actually INCREASING their competition if all of their friends are beautful as they are?

 

They don't. If you have 5 ugly girls and one beautiful in a group - all guys will go for that beautiful one.

[Siriana]

No, they don't.

I see it as the same league going out together (please don't take this in a rude way...it's just a way to explain it).

For example if I am single and I choose to go out with 5 playboy girls I am not going to get any attention since they simply get more, so I am screwed for the evening if I want to meet someone.

It's like trying to be noticed around huge hefners house during his party.

 

 

If you go with girls that are similar to you your chances are better especcially if you do something different.

For example if I am a playboy girl too, than a good trick is to be dressed less skimpy - I will be different (but still in the same league) and that will help me be noticed.

 

Or in real life if 3 of mine friends go out with me (we're similar in the hotness or lack of cathegory lol) than a good move is to wear pants if they all wears skirts etc...

 

 

Now I am not saying that this happens on purpose.

Not at all.

But I guess the same league has similar interests, life experiences or whatever....

I think this applies in other areas besides looks, but talking about looks is more rude than talking about the same hobby.

[Siriana]

I promise, next time I get half-drunk, I will ;-)

 

Or you can get half sober tonight and give me the answer later

[Pegasus]

Or you can get half sober tonight and give me the answer later

 

half sober in next hour? hahahaha

[Siriana]

Didn't say next hour.

I will log on in the morning and it would be great for an answer to wait for me....

See...you have plenty of time

 

 

 

To jaded:

Now I remembered something.

This applies if you're single.

If I'm taken than i don't care.

So maybe this is not directly connected to age but to the fact if the girls are single and out fishing ;-) or not.

[JadedStar]

I promise, next time I get half-drunk, I will ;-)

 

 

 

They don't. If you have 5 ugly girls and one beautiful in a group - all guys will go for that beautiful one.

 

 

I was thinking more about you saying all the good looking hot girls were all hanging together. Seems that they should all spread out one per plain jane group if less competition is their motivation.

[Dating Coach]

Tonight, my friend and I were sitting in a bar drinking beer. After drinking few of them, world become a lot more clear to us than before. (We both have tremendous respect for good beer).

 

So, the fact of the evening is - beautiful girls always stick together. I mean, there was a group of very hot girls, a group of not so good looking girls, and group of some ugly girls. Separate groups. And people say that there are no "leagues" based on looks.

 

There are. And one more thing - it's unlikely that your not good looking friend (female) will ever introduce you to some really hot friend of hers. That is a fact.

 

Guys, when I was younger I probably feared this as well. In fact, I know I feared approaching groups of women. Now... I prefer it by a long shot. It is SO MUCH EASIER to work a table of ladies than it is just one lady. The conversation is easier, you can show one, then the other, and then another attention, etc. There is so much more going on and all you have to do is get in good with one and the rest will be cool with you too.

[CaptainPlanet]

Tonight, my friend and I were sitting in a bar drinking beer. After drinking few of them, world become a lot more clear to us than before. (We both have tremendous respect for good beer).

 

So, the fact of the evening is - beautiful girls always stick together. I mean, there was a group of very hot girls, a group of not so good looking girls, and group of some ugly girls. Separate groups. And people say that there are no "leagues" based on looks.

 

There are. And one more thing - it's unlikely that your not good looking friend (female) will ever introduce you to some really hot friend of hers. That is a fact.

 

Good morning Sir,

 

welcome to reality.

[CaptainPlanet]

Depends on the girls. Some of them are tribalistic when they go out others will go out with their friends. Sometimes their friends are ugly, other times theres one plane jane per group.

[boo121]

What a load of rubbish... what beer were you drinking that made u come up with that!? Ive been introduced to hot women by not so good looking women on many occasions

[Siriana]

I was thinking more about you saying all the good looking hot girls were all hanging together. Seems that they should all spread out one per plain jane group if less competition is their motivation.

 

 

Of course.

But the members of plain jane group will stay unnoticed so she is not welcome lol

[ghost69]

it's the popularity phenomenon. you see it in high school. it does carry on after. never any leagues though. i can tell a good looking snobby girl from a just beautiful 'nice' girl.

[Pegasus]

it's the popularity phenomenon. you see it in high school. it does carry on after. never any leagues though. i can tell a good looking snobby girl from a just beautiful 'nice' girl.

 

I hope I'm able to recognize the nice one too. I have a date on friday with one from "hot" group ;-) so we'll see....

[JeckyllNHyde]

I think that since they stick together, they all make each other want to "aim higher" in looking better.

LIke when it comes to make up, clothers, hair.

For instance, I learnt alottt from hanging out with my friend, we have been friends since 9. And I gotta admit that I probably would not do certain things the way I do if it werent for her. Like recently she introduced me to make up bronzer, just small stuff like that. Well same goes for other stuff when enhancing the way you look. Those girls in groups probably subconsciously gotta "keep up" with each other in the looks department, or they learn from each other what looks good and what doesnt.

[ghost69]

I hope I'm able to recognize the nice one too. I have a date on friday with one from "hot" group ;-) so we'll see....

 

you will find out sure enough.

[amtjrtcet]

I think that since they stick together, they all make each other want to "aim higher" in looking better.

LIke when it comes to make up, clothers, hair.

For instance, I learnt alottt from hanging out with my friend, we have been friends since 9. And I gotta admit that I probably would not do certain things the way I do if it werent for her. Like recently she introduced me to make up bronzer, just small stuff like that. Well same goes for other stuff when enhancing the way you look. Those girls in groups probably subconsciously gotta "keep up" with each other in the looks department, or they learn from each other what looks good and what doesnt.

 

I have to agree with ya, it does motivate the members of the 'group' to "aim higher" as you said. I hang out with a 'hot' group of 6 women. All between the ages of 23-26, me being the oldest. We've all been friends since high school and we all try to out do each other when going out. But nothing serious. Besides I'm the only on thats not married, so it still works out best for me.