caasiopia68 Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 This morning, my mom took my cell phone and read my text messages (once again) she read what my girlfriend and I have said to eachother for the past 5 days. Now she feels that it is necessary to ban us from talking for forever. I'm not too worried about it because I know there is no such thing and I am willing to walk to the ends of the earth for her, however, it wont be easy. Where do I begin on recovering from this conflict? Link to comment
barbielovesmac Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 she can't keep you from her forever and that's the beauty of it. Link to comment
Censored Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 islands in the stream.......... dude, start walking, cos it's a long way. how old are you. Link to comment
winchester3 Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 How old are you? Mom seems to be paying your phone bill and then bans you from seeing your girl? Lol i find that funny. Tell your mom something like "I Love this girl and will not stop seeing her. Your support would be appreciated so i don't have to fight against you every step of the way" Link to comment
ftheunion Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 What did your mom read? What were the text messages about? Link to comment
barbielovesmac Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 sheeeeeeeeeee iiiiiiiiissssssssssssnnnnnnnnnnnnnnttttttttt rrrrrrrreeeeeeeeesssssssssspppppppppooooooooooonnnnnnnnndddddddddiiiiiiiiiinnnnnnnnnnnnggg Link to comment
caasiopia68 Posted November 27, 2007 Author Share Posted November 27, 2007 Don't laugh. I'm 16. She's 14. All negative comments will be deleted. Link to comment
caasiopia68 Posted November 27, 2007 Author Share Posted November 27, 2007 you know what... whatever Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 You're still young and as long as mom is paying your cell phone bill she has the rights to do so, fortunately there is other ways to keep in contact (think of the times before phone and internet) but just be careful, it can land you into serious trouble with your rents and do you really want that? Do you two see each other at places like school? Oh, and im just curious what were the text messages about? Had to be something not so good and next time you're in this situation DELETE, DELETE, DELETE! Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 you know what... whatever Maybe this is the reason your mom took your phone.. attitude, attitude .. it will get you nowhere in life my dear. Link to comment
barbielovesmac Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 who was being negative?!?!?! Everyone was just asking how old you were. That's not negative at all. Link to comment
Censored Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 Well, I dunno, I think at 16 it is kinda severe to be banning your kid from seeing his g/f. So they may have been texting sex riddles or whatever, but jeeeperes, whats wrong with that? Dude, I think your mum should be more understanding as you are the MALE. If you were a girl, i totally understand her banning the relationship. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 Well, I dunno, I think at 16 it is kinda severe to be banning your kid from seeing his g/f. So they may have been texting sex riddles or whatever, but jeeeperes, whats wrong with that? Dude, I think your mum should be more understanding as you are the MALE. If you were a girl, i totally understand her banning the relationship. I would really like to know what the difference is rather he's male or female? and at 16, he still is a CHILD and living under his parents roof thereforeeee they have the right to do what they see fit. We just know about the text messages whose to say there wasn't alot more going on? Link to comment
Censored Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 Everyone knows it's different for Boys. Just the way it is. Boys are ok to go out and party. Girls need to stay at home until they're a LOT older. Ho Hum. Link to comment
caasiopia68 Posted November 27, 2007 Author Share Posted November 27, 2007 well she doesn't exactly trust me. and i believe in only having sex with one person my whole life and i want that to be the person i marry. my mom thinks that she cant trust me thinking i will go off and have sex with her. text messages saying stuff implying that we want to be.. you know in bed together. nothing sexual. but she thinks it will happen. Link to comment
leo_s84 Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 well she doesn't exactly trust me. and i believe in only having sex with one person my whole life and i want that to be the person i marry. my mom thinks that she cant trust me thinking i will go off and have sex with her. text messages saying stuff implying that we want to be.. you know in bed together. nothing sexual. but she thinks it will happen. She's right it will happen, the more she tries to stop it the faster it'll happen... Link to comment
Censored Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 She's right it will happen, the more she tries to stop it the faster it'll happen... Yuppppppers......... I agree. eh. Link to comment
ftheunion Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 She can't stop you. If theres a will, theres a way. But that is how moms are. Paranoid for both genders. When you are 18 and have your own job. Then you can go about your business and your mom will not be a hinder anymore. Link to comment
Hellzapoppin Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 well she doesn't exactly trust me. and i believe in only having sex with one person my whole life and i want that to be the person i marry. my mom thinks that she cant trust me thinking i will go off and have sex with her. text messages saying stuff implying that we want to be.. you know in bed together. nothing sexual. but she thinks it will happen. Let's see...why would your Mom think something sexual might happen....could it be 'cause you're texting sex messages? A 16 y.o. texting sexy stuff to a 14 y.o. girl is JUST WRONG. Don't blame her a bit. Cool your jets, Romeo. Get grown-up before thinking about sex. Hate to tell you but your Mother is right..... Link to comment
alcide Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 Don't laugh. I'm 16. She's 14. All negative comments will be deleted. Well your mom is right because you should concertrate about your school and girls will come later. She just wants the best for you. Link to comment
beauty21 Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 You just have to respect you mom's wishes. Unfortunately, you are living in her house so you have to follow her rules. I think your mom could have handled things better though. Alot of parents out here, disrespect their childrens feelings and tell them they are too young to have and feel emotion. That is so not true. Your mom could have invited your girlfriend over for dinner and talked with the both of you about the nature of your relationship. Permitting you from seeing and speaking to her will only make you want to do it more. Then that is where the trouble starts. Sorry about this buddy. You have to think. You have to think and live outside of those walls. Link to comment
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