warriorspeed350 Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 ok im not dating this girl but we have been talking and doing stuff for about a year, 3/4 of the time she didnt have a b/f but the farthest we have gone was fingering....her mom flipped on me for no reason for being in her bed but then after that she wanted to be just friends because she isnt over this kid she went out with like 6 months ago and she says she isnt ready for anything what the hell can i do to win her over again and get her mind off of this kid?!?!?!? (by the way we are bolth 16 and he just turned 18 ) Link to comment
Cardinal Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 I wouldn't try to do anything. If she is interested in some other dude, let her be. That seems to be the case now. I'd just move on and pursue another girl. Link to comment
Killasasparilla Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 Theres really nothing you can do, man. Link to comment
Jayar Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 You can't do much. You're also at a significant disadvantage for the next couple years because you're not 18. It's a tough age. I remember when my little brother was going through it and he became very frustrated that the girls he liked were interested in the slightly older guys. Things got good for him again when he reached about 20. Link to comment
warriorspeed350 Posted November 27, 2007 Author Share Posted November 27, 2007 she is just not getting over him fast enough, he moved on and we had done stuff, so im like now what.....he dumped her and she started seeing me she is just thinking about him and cant get over him even though he * * * * ed up her life Link to comment
leo_s84 Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 she is just not getting over him fast enough, he moved on and we had done stuff, so im like now what.....he dumped her and she started seeing me she is just thinking about him and cant get over him even though he * * * * ed up her life Welcome to life my friend Link to comment
leo_s84 Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 You could try fingering her again. Sigh...not another one Link to comment
WillyD Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 Being in any relationship with someone who's thinking romantically about someone else *never* works. It just shows she's not ready to date and that means its a waste of effort to trail her. If its been 6 months over puppylove then she needs to mature some as well. Some romantics would say "wait for her forever" but the simple truth is at your age its just not plausible. Like everyone else's opinions - move on to someone who will appreciate you the way you appreciate them. You'll be happier in the long run, I promise ya. WillyD Link to comment
leo_s84 Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 Another one? How do you know he only used "one"? Oh yeah..the investigative abilities. Got it. It's obvious...with two she would have stayed... Link to comment
leo_s84 Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 And one she thereforeeee strayed? that seems to be the case Link to comment
leo_s84 Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 If it was two in the pink, and one in the stink, she'd still be around, I surely think. hahahaha.... can't beat that.... Link to comment
sddeaston Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 Manny- you should have stopped with the shocker comment. Link to comment
warriorspeed350 Posted November 28, 2007 Author Share Posted November 28, 2007 i used two and i guess i wil try to move on but its not that she is thinking about him she just isnt ready for anything but w/e * * * * it if i try to finger her again she would probibly leave and not talk to me again so......... im effed Link to comment
leo_s84 Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 i used two and i guess i wil try to move on but its not that she is thinking about him she just isnt ready for anything but w/e * * * * it if i try to finger her again she would probibly leave and not talk to me again so......... im effed We where joking...please don't take it seriously Link to comment
Alezia Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 Sounds like a case of rebound to me. Link to comment
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