omayra Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 Hey guys!! it has been a while since i last got on this cite. I actually got on cus i remembered that this is a good place to get advice. im in need of some advice. Im so sad and depressed at the moment. well here is my story Well, E and i have been going out for three months, actuall o Novemer 23rd it was three months. We BROKE UP just yesterday ast night. I started the whole thing cus he wouldnt take a christaian cd that i gave him. i gave it to him and then he placed it inside my mail box and called me up and told me it was there. so i got really mad at him. he calledme back but i didnt answer the phone. i was really mad at him for doin that. i made this cd with a lot of lovefor him. i placed al my fav.songs there, but he didnt want to take it. So anyways i told him that i just didnt knw anymore cus he has been makeing me ad a lot lately. we have been argueing a lot lately. So i called him this morning again and asked him how he was. hes like fine i was sad yesterday but know i better. i was stressed out with being with you. i asked him if he wanted to get back together and he said that he wanted some time for himself, he wanted to think about things. I started crying and he heard me so he asked wi i always have to d that. this is not the only time that we broke up this is our secound time now. he broke up with me the last time. Now i broke up with him. It really hurts that he doesnt want to get back with me. I need some helpfull advice!! i love this guy he has been my first real boyfriend and i love him so much I dont know if i should let him go for real or just ot call him for some time and let him come to me? i dont know wat to do. and today sunday was our hengout day. imso sad this had to happen again should i just leave him a lone to think about things. should i not call him anymore and not bug him cus i heard guys hate girls tat try to get back witht them. Should i call him and tell him to come over so we can talk 2 eachother about things. i think that sounds like th right thingto do...talk to him in person? idk Link to comment
Loki71 Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 I really didn't read anything that said he didn't want you back only that he needed some time. That is not all that bad an idea to be honest. If you broke up twice in 3months then maybe it's not the right releationship. As for the cd that was rude a gift should be taken and accepted even if he didn't want it. All he had to do was put it up some where. Link to comment
phoenix91 Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 I really didn't read anything that said he didn't want you back only that he needed some time. That is not all that bad an idea to be honest. If you broke up twice in 3months then maybe it's not the right releationship. As for the cd that was rude a gift should be taken and accepted even if he didn't want it. All he had to do was put it up some where. I agree... As for me, what you need to do is to give him the time he asked for, and then call him a few days later... Good Luck... Link to comment
omayra Posted November 25, 2007 Author Share Posted November 25, 2007 I really didn't read anything that said he didn't want you back only that he needed some time. That is not all that bad an idea to be honest. If you broke up twice in 3months then maybe it's not the right releationship. As for the cd that was rude a gift should be taken and accepted even if he didn't want it. All he had to do was put it up some where. I asked him if hewanted to get back together and he told me that he wanted time alone right now, he said that he didnt want to get back together now...i dont know if there is hope or not. I dont know... what should i do? Link to comment
Loki71 Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 give him time again he didn't say anything like " No time won't change anything I think it would be best if we just end it." I think he is doing the right thing and taken time to determine what will be best. He might say it is over or he might not, I know that don't help you but it is the best thing he can do. A releationship where you are going back and forth and breaking up every couple of months is not healthy for either of you. You can't make him come back but you can tell him if he decides to come back you will be there. And again your only 18 so if he does decide to not come back there are plenty of other boys for you that might even make you happier. Link to comment
omayra Posted November 27, 2007 Author Share Posted November 27, 2007 hey guys thanks, i have an update to this, he called me last night but i didnt answer the phone. i was so sad that i didnt want to talk to him again. wat do i do now? do i call him back? Link to comment
Loki71 Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 If you don't talk to him how will you know what he wants? I know your worried but you will not know either way if you ignore him. Link to comment
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