curious11 Posted November 23, 2007 Share Posted November 23, 2007 First of all happy thanksgiving to everyone on ENA. I have been in NC with my ex for about 2 months now. I saw her today at the annual football game. We just smiled at eachother, then i notcied she had a disgusted sad face. So i walked away. It seems like during NC there is always somethin that pops up within the month limit, first it was her bday and now its thanksgiving. What im having trouble with, is if i should say happy thanksgiving to her. She hasnt said it to me yet and its 830 already. She told me not to talk to her until i was over her because i said some mean things to her then right after would tell her it was only because i loved her so much. And finally she was sick of that and said yuou know what you have problems you have GOT to move on. So i did, and im trying. But i want to put a smile on her face by saying happy thanksgiving, but im not sure if me saying that would actually do that. what do you guys think i should do? -Brian Link to comment
Zackinlaw Posted November 23, 2007 Share Posted November 23, 2007 Keep the NC. The whole point is to NOT give in to the temptation to give yourself false hope by trying to keep lines of communication open. She's made it quite plain that she considers your relationship irreparably over ... that was a gift from her to you that many exes don't give. Sorry for your pain, it will get better. Zack. Link to comment
Censored Posted November 23, 2007 Share Posted November 23, 2007 Stay NC. Wishing her happy thanksgiving or anything else for that matter is only going to annoy her. She has made this pretty clear for you. I know it sucks, but it is the best thing for both of you. Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted November 23, 2007 Share Posted November 23, 2007 Maybe wait till Christmas and then wish her a Merry Christmas then. Maybe by then she will be less hostile towards you. Time heals most wounds, I think. Link to comment
Dating Coach Posted November 23, 2007 Share Posted November 23, 2007 Keep up the NC. No Happy Thanksgiving, no Merry Xmas, no Happy New Year, etc. It appears to me you are still into this girl as you feel the need to initiate contact again. That just reaffirms that you still need NC for a long time. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 don't go looking for a response from her. just cut all ties. let yourself heal. Link to comment
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