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hi, I was wandering if anyone can give me opinion on issue that i have with my girlfriend. We have been together for almost three years and I love her dearly. After transfering from junior college to a university we have been separated physically but still decided to go on with long distance relationship. After two months she started to question the relationship and started too become in doubt if this relationship is something that she wants. We kind a came up to a solution to maybe separate from each other for six months and see after that if we want to still stay together in other words take a break from each other. I am really not up for that and she said if we don't do this that I might be faced with resentment from her. Can anybody please tell me their opinion on this issue. Should I take a break? Is taking a break really working? Please...

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Hi ther there isn't some much that u can do coz to me it sounds like she doesn't know what she wants and that she is confused about herself. Right now i suggest u should just give her time and continue on with ur life and hopefully she will get in contact with u. I really don't know if taking break is going to work for u b/c she may have change in mind. It's really hard to tell when u can get her back since is already having doubts. I think u should take a break from the relationship and continue and decide what u want to do. Let me know ur updates on it take care. Hope everything works out for u.

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Thank you for the answers. After this weekend i am taking or we are taking a break. On friday she called me and said that she needs the break and after I insisted that i don't want to take a break she started to tell me about how she feels about a "friend" that she has there and how she has asked him to give her a masage when she needed and how when she goes on a party she getts drunk and she gets in need of sexual sutisfaction and she said that she needed to take a break because she didn't wanted to cheat on me if she did something with this guy when she gets drunk. To me it seemed that she already did soomething but she doesn't want to admit about it. Right now I am in doubt if I should ever give her a second chance later on if I don't find somebody before that because she is only 21 and she has lot to figure out for her self or I should just break and never see her again. So should I leave the door open for her or close it?

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