carbine Posted October 28, 2003 Share Posted October 28, 2003 ok my mom told me that i have a dr apointment in 2 days but i've been going through rouph times and have been cutting myself well its a check up and im sure they'll want me to remove my shirt my chest and arms are sliced i told my mom ive been depressed and she asked if ive thought about hurting myself i couldnt tell her the truth so im sure the dr will tell her , im really scared has anyone gone through this kind of situation , or has any advice ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
enadevoli Posted October 28, 2003 Share Posted October 28, 2003 well, cutting yourself is a bad sign. even though you dont want anyone to find out, you need to be honest with the docter & you need to get help. your mom only cares about you, & asking you about it was her way of seeing if you needed help. do this for you. you have a problem that needs to be taken care of as soon as possible, so don't just lie about this no matter how tempted you are. if you don't want the doctor to know about it, then tell your mom before & maybe see if she can cancel the appointment to later. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ash Posted October 28, 2003 Share Posted October 28, 2003 You do sound scared, and the fact you've written to this forum means you want some help. So please, let your mum and your doctor help. They won't judge you, they'll try to make things better for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
So_confused Posted October 28, 2003 Share Posted October 28, 2003 When I was in grade 8 I was in the same boat as you are now. My mom found out and got me the proper help needed. Your mom obviously cares a great deal about you or else she wouldn't have asked if you ever thought about hurting yourself. I had to go see a suicide counselor for a while and she made me realize that there was nothing to be afraid of in life. I came to see that life is all about growing up and overcoming the "mountians" that might rise in front of you. Life's a challenge, it's not meant to be easy. If it was, what would be the point in goals and all the great things that come with the future. If you are scared to see the doctor just don't go or pospone it but I think that if the doctor knows what your problems are he will be able to help make them go away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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