Jump to content

Recommended Posts

Im 13 years old, i am aslo gay, i need help, i think one of my friends is gay. But i don't know for sure. He acts like it, like, in p.e he checks out other guys boxers, he always avoids the subject of homosexuality, and whenever someone talks about it, he gets scared and quiet. I tryed to get him to tell me, but he just keeps saying no, I am almost positive that he is gay. How can i know for sure?

Link to comment

Hello, thanks for coming to eNotalone.com!


I don't know how to approach this situation, because I don't know what your intentions are. Are you just curious if he is gay or not?


The point I want to make is... if he is gay, it is for him to decide when to tell people. It's something completely up to him, and if you push him to get an answer, he might just close down altogether. Really, the healthiest thing for him is to just let him do it on his own time.


If anything, he's probably confused about his sexuality... he may not know anything for sure. At your age, it is common for people to be confused about these things. He may not even be gay at all so just let things go and if he's gay, he'll tell you when the time is right.


Hope that helps!


Link to comment

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
  • Create New...