Dont Know What To Do?

[MIKEDSF]

ok, in short, my gf and i broke up 1 year ago, although really it was only 8 months ago, she met some guy and started seeing/sleeping with him, i was devestated by this, after 5 months i met someone else who i started to see/sleep with, except i truly loved my ex. when she started seeing that other guy we were broken up but i dont think i could ever forgive her for sleeping with someone else. we have been talking alot lately and i think there is potential for getting back together but i dont know if i can get over her having sex with someone else. i don think i still love her,aand will till the day i die. i am 25 please advivse thank you

[routerx]

Actually, that's great news that you walked away and couldn't stop thinking about her. But, she slept around, you slept around.. mistakes.. mistakes.. forget about it now because you both did the same deed.

 

THIS IS TODAY

 

I would tell her what you feel. Just say it... "hey, when we were apart, and I heard you were sleeping with someone else, it drove me CRAZY!".

 

That's a compliment to her!

 

Sounds like you may need to seal the deal with her. Time to look in the mirror and ask yourself if this is THE girl.

 

Consider yourself lucky. You are in a good spot. You walked away from someone, and want to walk back. Not many people can say that.

[rizal1284]

ok, in short, my gf and i broke up 1 year ago, although really it was only 8 months ago, she met some guy and started seeing/sleeping with him, i was devestated by this, after 5 months i met someone else who i started to see/sleep with, except i truly loved my ex. when she started seeing that other guy we were broken up but i dont think i could ever forgive her for sleeping with someone else. we have been talking alot lately and i think there is potential for getting back together but i dont know if i can get over her having sex with someone else. i don think i still love her,aand will till the day i die. i am 25 please advivse thank you

 

 

I've been there before man. I walk away from the mother of my child when she first cheated on me and started a new life with another girl. I didn't see my ex again till I fought for my daughter in court. My biggest mistake is letting my ex come back in my life and now letting go of a great woman. Now my the mother of my child screws me over again and left me for another man. Pls reconsider your decision before you get back with your ex esp if you can't get over the fact she was with somebody else.