Women

[sisterlynch]

Lots of people are afraid of rejection. That is why we have upon casual dating and friends. These are people that they can have intimate conversations with, but not feel rejected when their friendship ends or they find someone more interesting.

 

We reserve our hearts for only a few people that we really trust. The rest remain outsiders. When women let down their guard, they feel more vulnerable, but they also feel true emotions that are different and can be unsettling in their newness!

 

We are all afraid of change. But sometimes that is what it takes to survive. So instead of changing our 20 or 30 year old way of getting life accomplished, we hang on to what we know and what feels comfortable to us.

 

 

If you are really willing to listen when people talk to you you can learn a lot from their expressions about how they feel about themselves and you. We normally judge others more harshly than ourselves. What if you took those well intended criticisms and turned them on yourself?

 

Nobody ever accepts this challenge except under difficult situations. We judge others so we don't have to judge ourselves. If someone insults you wonder to yourself the pain that that person feels to want to hurt others.

 

We women need to support one another. This is very important to our sense of well being. Don't try to make everthing into a contest. That way there will always be a winner and a loser. Let the men have their way and the women do things their own way.

 

Don't put extra pressure on people. To keep from feeling foolish you need others who support you. Make sure that others support your way of doing things. See the glass is half full, or change your own perception.

[GermanAngel]

I agree, I do.. that was a very interesting and strong point you have put accross. Some things I have to admitt never thought of.