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Hey i was just wondering if its ok to masturbate with other guys...

im not gay in any way...i have a girlfriend mind you, but i was wondering because the other day me and a few friends stayed the night at my mates house and well we watched a porno and then we all started jacking off...

 

it was weird but i was wondering if theres anything wrong with it and what other guys think about this issue and if any other guys have done anything similar to this.

 

cheers people

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It I do say that this is really weird, and how the hell did it all start up? How many of you were there? But hey if gals can do it then why cant guys. You all get aroused with watching a porn and do it when you guys are alone so doing it together im sure give it a bit more excitement… right?

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Hey!! I say whatever floats your boat!! Nobodies to say its strange coz if its something you want to do then who cares.I have known a few guys do this,nothing bad came out of it,but just beware that one of you doesnt change your feelings about it.I mean guys watch porno's together all the time and get horny doing so,so if you're all comfortable enough with each other...fine...not sure i could do it though!!

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Well, I have to be honest, this, in my opinion, is quite... unorthodox. How did it all begin anyways, one of your friend, asked if you wanted to do it or something like that?

 

I watched a porn flick once with friends a long time ago, but we didn't masturbate together, would have felt, WAYYY to weird and.. Well there's something about this story that sounds bizarre.

 

If your question is, is is okay.. well I suppose so, as you didn't do anything wrong to anyone. As far as being normal, in the sense that this is a behaviour everyone does once in a while, I would be tempted to say no, masterbating with other men, if you're straigth, sounds abnormal. As long as you're fine with it though.

 

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i dunno said

sorry, no offense, sounds gay though

 

umm..why does it sound gay? i mean, thats probably a stupid question, but just because he masturbated in front of his friends while watching a porn movie doesn't mean its gay... just because he saw another guy's private parts doesn't mean its gay...

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There is a Kinsey scale that goes from 0 to 6, six is only homosexual contact, zero is only heterosexual contact. If you are physically touching them and you are less than sixteen years old, it may mean nothing. You are who you are inside.

 

If you look deep in your own heart, you will know the answer.

 

I was looking at some of the other responses and it came to mind: did you do this willingly? Did you feel like it was something that you really wanted to do, or did the other guy ask you to do it, making it seem ok even though you felt a little weird about it??

 

Were all the people present with in a few years of each other in age?

 

People: always remember that you must choose to do a sex act to make it ok, others shouldn't have to talk you into something, or make you so drunk or uncomfortable that you do things with them that you wouldn't normally do...

 

Look up "sexual boundaries": I found the following

 

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I know it is talking to dr's about what they can/should do with their patients, but it may give some people some insight into what is good touching and what is bad touching.

 

 

Here is anpther one under "maintaining proper workplace boundaries"

 

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Thanks for responding everyone.

 

I mean Im not sure if its a big deal. like i said it happened one night when we stayed at my mates house. we were just watching a porno and then of course we got horny and then they one by one took out their di**s and so i felt as if i had to. dont get me wrong - they didnt make me, i just didnt want to feel like the odd one out. i didnt feel uncomfortable coz they are really good friends of mine and i know that they arent gay - half of them have girlfriends.

 

i spoke about it to another friend the next day and he said it was normal for guys to do it....so i wasnt sure if any other guys have done anything similar to this.

 

we didnt at all touch each other...we barely even looked at each other!

we are all around 16 years old is this normal?

 

most people that have replied have said that it isnt, does that mean theres something wrong with me and do i have to tell my girlfriend what happened? im scared she wont understand if i do tell her...

 

have any other guys ever done something like this?? im worried now!!

 

PLEASE HELP...

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Ive heard of people doing it before. Im a guy and have never done it before but Ive heard of other guys doing it. Personally, if I was doing it I'd wanna go into like a bathroom or something before I climaxed, but I don't necessarily see anything wrong with it as long as everyone's comfortable with it.

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I've done it. It's not strange if you're cool with the people you're wacking with. Not to sound gay at all, but who cares? You're watching naked women, not each other. It's perfectly ok, it doesnt make you even remotely gay, and no you dont have to tell your girlfriend any more than youd have to tell her if you did it in the shower, your bed, or anywhere else. Its your business.

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i think its kinda weird...

 

i mean my cuz and i when we were teenagers- we'd have competitions...

 

see who could do it fastest...

 

see who could do it the most times in a day...

 

ps...we never judged the amount....

 

my poor brother- he had to share a room with us...must've thought we were crazy...and would have done ANYTHING to have had his own room!!

 

we'd talk crap to him like he couldn't do it fast at all...

 

TFF

 

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This is nuts.

I can't even wiz at a urinal with another guy standing around.

"Hey slim, dang it man, you just shot it all over the TV. Next time aim your weiner somewhere else when 'ya let it fly, okay?" And dont fire it off toward the birdcage either!

"Bet'ya I can shoot further though.

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There are a lot of guys who are not gay but enjoy masturbating with other males. It can be a confusing thing because mutual masturbation is not sex, but it is sexual in a way. It is neither gay or straight. It is something in and of itself.

For a lot of straight men, it is a natural thing for them to do. In fact there is a collection of personal stories, pictures, and videos on the Web at

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And of course Wikipedia also has a page on this issue at

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There are a lot of guys who are not gay but enjoy masturbating with other males. It can be a confusing thing because mutual masturbation is not sex, but it is sexual in a way. It is neither gay or straight. It is something in and of itself.

For a lot of straight men, it is a natural thing for them to do. In fact there is a collection of personal stories, pictures, and videos on the Web at

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And of course Wikipedia also has a page on this issue at

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Wrong, and wrong. I've never heard of this, ever. Unless it's a cultural thing and guys in other parts of the world are doing this a lot, there is nothing common about this.

 

And I agree with Longblackhair. It seems to me like it can lead to homosexual activity. Nothing wrong with that if that's what your after.

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