SecretFlame Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 maybe this will help use the crappy {Mod Edit} they did to us to move on...
SecretFlame Posted October 3, 2007 Author Posted October 3, 2007 Ill start I dont miss when he would call me 30 times a day at work to make sure i wasnt flirting with any firefighters. Dude I am also a firefighter and just because im at the station doesnt mean ive turned into some psycho skeeze bag that is going to bang every coworker i see. I dont miss when he tried to be funny when i was in a ****ty mood. Putting on my "princess" t-shirt and dancing to "Im too sexy" will not make me laugh when I just had to hold a 4 year old's brain inside their skull..have some compassion Yeah sometimes I really was to tired, sick or not in the mood, doesnt mean i found someone else my phone is exactly that. That doesnt mean guess my password, check it when im sleeping or in the shower yeah, I have friends. Friends that may not like you nor to they have to just because your my boyfriend. Crying for 2 hours when im trying to go out with a group of girlfriends to a bar doesnt make me want to stay home. It makes me want to go even more to get away from your tantrum. No we are not talking about any other guys ass or how we can scheme a plot on leaving you. We are usually talking about how fat we feel, this awesome new sex position we came up with or how great it would be if that hoochie in the black mini skirt fell on her face. Get over yourself. Your chest hair grossed me out and who the **** wheres adidas sandels when the get out of the shower so they dont get germs from the floor on their feet? Grow a set, woman. standing in the middle of the rain refusing to get back into the house while were fighting is just stupid. It may have worked for Brad pitt, Ben affleck or Johnny Depp but heres a news flash, theres no lights, no cameras and no make up crew so get your ass back in the damn house and stop causing a scene for my roomates and neighboors. Yeah when we broke up I admit I went a little crazy, then again when you break an apartment lease, go look at engagment rings and plan on getting married in 2 months who wouldnt get a little un-glued. Your phone ****ing works and you had to ignore me for a month because you didnt have the balls to tell me it was over. You don't deserve all the calls or texts from me trying to piece together whatever happened. Thanks for the memories you numnut. GOD I FEEL SO MUCH BETTER!!!
KronicMan Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 i dont miss everything after the breakup, waste of time and emotions!!!!
onewithbooks Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 #1 reason Because I am already all stocked up on crazy
brokedownpalace Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 i miss alot of things.. alot of the good times and memories.. i wouldnt trade all the pain and the rain for the life i have now.. not one bit.
TijuanaJones Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 Me having to guess what she feels or thinks because she won't discuss it and then let it explode in my face.
Infrared Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 I won't miss how my mood HAD to be perfect all the time. If I was grumpy there was something wrong with us, even if I was grumpy at someone else completely unrelated.
SecretFlame Posted October 3, 2007 Author Posted October 3, 2007 I won't miss how my mood HAD to be perfect all the time. If I was grumpy there was something wrong with us, even if I was grumpy at someone else completely unrelated. haha oh my god our exes must have been separated at birth. Him: "what did i do?" Me: "nothing, we had four cardiac alerts at work and a roll over, I forgot to pay my com ed bill, I barely have time to finish my paramedic class project, I have to go grocery shopping and I can't find my wallet..." Him you're mad at me?" Me: "sure..."
MaxPayne19 Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 The thing i wont miss was my ex's excessive clinginess.....every weekend when I would hang out with my friends she would constantly call and would always expect me to immediately call her when I came home for the night.
bubblyblonde11 Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 I have some fond memories too however I will not miss The lies The dismissing of my feelings The selfishness The OCD with cleanliness His snooty Mum The amount of money I spent on trying to get "better" when the only thing that was really wrong with me was "us"
SecretFlame Posted October 3, 2007 Author Posted October 3, 2007 I have some fond memories too however I will not miss The lies The dismissing of my feelings The selfishness The OCD with cleanliness His snooty Mum The amount of money I spent on trying to get "better" when the only thing that was really wrong with me was "us" freakin a sister!!!
tpid223 Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 Selfishness Exploding at me every time she was drunk, over literally nothing demeaning name calling unsure of her faithfulness, she destroyed my trust in her The constant feeling of walking on egg shells The amount she drank in a nutshell
Infrared Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 haha oh my god our exes must have been separated at birth. Him: "what did i do?" Me: "nothing, we had four cardiac alerts at work and a roll over, I forgot to pay my com ed bill, I barely have time to finish my paramedic class project, I have to go grocery shopping and I can't find my wallet..." Him you're mad at me?" Me: "sure..." hehehe, yes it would seem like that. My break up came during a time when I was job hunting and interviews. I was so stressed. Never once mad at her, just antsy with what was going to happen to me. Little did I realize that would be losing her. I have 3 to add as well since I thought more about this. 1. I won't miss her friends at all. I guess that should have been the biggest red flag that I never noticed. Probably the biggest question I'll ever have is "what did I do that made them so ambivalent towards me." Sadly the answer is what she was saying when I wasn't around. 2. Her complete inability to apologize sincerely for anything, yet her expectance that I should. 3. Her ability to hold anything agaisn't me no matter how long ago it was.
pinkbunnie Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 i wont miss him for the fact he never calls me even for a min but he calls his ex n talks to her for 40-60min!!!!!!!!!! and i wont miss him for the fact he never showed me how he felt about me..his true feelings were always hidden. He never showed his emotions. He was just like a turtle in a shell! also, the fact that he makes rude remarks to me when we argue. like treating me like im some kind of an enemy.. and also for the face he post a picture of a girl claiming she was his date to his gradutation! that shattered me into million pieces and reason why i am stronger now so i can move on faster!! also, for the fact he put his ex first than. how important she was to him more than me. for the fact he calls her more than me..doesnt give me a minute...and for the fact he even lives with her now with other ppl!! these are the things that makes me feel strong to move on and not miss him too much but yet he is a nice person but doesnt change the fact of how things he did to me.......
tommy_bud Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 I don't miss how she had to be right in every argument. HELLO MY OPINION IS EXACTLY THAT, MINE. How can my opinion be wrong? I don't miss how the first word out of her mouth was NO, regardless if I was posing a question, discussing whatever topic, or making suggestions to questions she asked me. Knee-jerk response was no your wrong. I don't miss seeing how she verbally abused her father. (and how he just bent over and took it from her) I don't miss how she was broke, nor her inability to recover her financial situation, and would rather go spend the little extra money she had to BUY her Ex BF dinner. (they became friends after their breakup, why can't I buy my friend dinner??) I don't miss having to carefully craft every word that comes out of my mouth in order to avoid being told I was wrong. #1 reason why I left you sweetheart. I don't miss ur stinky breath or your weird smelling skin (use soap in the shower ffs) Ahh, that feels better
JadedStar Posted October 3, 2007 Posted October 3, 2007 Well this might not really apply to me since i am not getting over a break up now and have been happily married a year and a half but wanted to say one thing i don't miss about my ex is how SLOPPY he was. He was filthy.
butterflyx0 Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 he was controlling, and manipulative, and he made me believe that no one would ever care for me the way he did. nothing I ever did was right. for instance, if I went tanning, he would yell at me. yea, so it's bad for you, and he was looking out for me...but like, my mom tells me not to go tanning, but she doesn't go on for 20 minutes about how "it's going to kill me and not to mention, make me look trashy and slutty."-> his words exactly. it's so crazy...i went to a tanning salon the other day, and before I got out of the car I was like omg...what if my ex drives by and sees me here? He's gonna have the satisfaction of saying to himself "there she goes being stupid again, never listening to me or doing the right thing" and then i was like, F*CK THIS!! It's my life! I have my life back!!! I can do whatever I want and I don't have to answer to anyone or feel like I'm constantly screwing up!! It felt so good!! I'm sure I'll have more to add to this...it feels good to write about the crappy things he did to me...
Salty Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 haha i'll miss his stupidity.... I don't think im ever going to get as mad as i did with him with anyone else ( It made me feel so alive)
SecretFlame Posted October 4, 2007 Author Posted October 4, 2007 I don't miss ur stinky breath or your weird smelling skin (use soap in the shower ffs) I would just like to say i almost peed my pants. Thank you hahaha.
dqueen Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 I won't miss: His selfishness His self-centeredness His drinking His smoking His addiction to online dating/cybersex Him walking all over me and disregarding my feelings over his ex His workaholicism His pathetic mind games Him
SRufus Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 Like someone said, I won't miss anything after the break-up. I wont miss the way she drives, or her guilt-tripping me.
surfjon Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 I don't miss the coldness that rolled off her like the frozen food section.
heartbrokenFloridiot Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 I don't miss: Her inability to handle money or grasp the concept of saving for the future. Her refusal to communicate. Instead of talking about it she bottled it up and then left for reasons I still don't fully understand as she wouldn't talk about them.
SecretFlame Posted October 5, 2007 Author Posted October 5, 2007 Sweet jesus, and i mean this in the nicest way possible but ...where in the hell did you meet her?!?! I need to stay FAR, FAR, FAR from that place. She sounds looney toons!
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