Funstuff Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 Hello, the girlfriend before my current one mention about he wanting to try a threesome somtime (2 guys and her O_O) And i never really said anything but thought to my self that i defintaly would get overly jealous i mean who wouldnt? And im worried the girl im with now may want that. Have any of you girls ever wanted and is it reasonable to ask as a girl?
skyblue1 Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 No never, It doesn't mean this girl your with wants the same thing. I think a lot of girls will be against it. Not all the girls want to same thing.
Zackinlaw Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 I think the polite protocol is for the "extra" to bring it up. So if it's going to be MMF, the male should suggest it ... if it's going to be MFF then the female should bring it up. (if it's going to be MFFF then the male should get Viagra and keep a defibrillator handy ... hahahaha). All types of "swinging" including threesomes are really "cheating with consent." It's not proper for one partner to ask the other: "is it OK if I cheat on you?" Much better for the other partner to say "It's OK to cheat on me" instead. Your post is not 100% clear, but if your ex's bf brought up the MMF threesome, that's fine. But if your current gf decides to bring it up, it better be to ask another girl to join you! Zack.
dnttellmelies Posted October 2, 2007 Posted October 2, 2007 Personally I am a sexual learner and would love a threesome with two guys, although i am also bi and like threesomes with two girls and a guy. Yeah I had the guts to ask for it once from an older bf a long time ago and he questioned me and seemed a little uncomfortable about it for a while. It bothered him the same way it bothers u i believe. I didn't ask again, and probably won't for a long time... but getting up the guts to say it was hard I can almost promise you that.
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