pacifistx Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 Whatever it is that makes us go on and want to do the many things we do daily has gone out of me. I no longer have the power to endure through running and exercising my body. I no longer wish to do anything fun. The only thing I want to do is finish my schooling. Do we really need friends in our lives? I find them to get boring after awhile, and I just end up going through them to another set. I guess I'm naturally a loner, and I don't think this is a normal habit in society. And maybe the only reason I'm unable to offend anyone and always obligated to talk nicely to them is because I want something from them, whether its friendship or another trade off such as promotions, recommendations, of which those are important. Can I just be blunt and rude with everyone but the important ones that do matter such as my professors and bosses? Will I lose any advantages in life other than having some friendship that will pass? And I have no idea how this could tie in with willpower, I just felt like throwing it out there.
Lana0120 Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 You don't sound very happy to be honest. Are you sure the problem is about friends and not so much about things going on inside your own head? It's normal to meet people who are OK as acquaintances who you wouldn't want to spend a lot of time with. However, if you're feeling like you like no one at all, that's a bigger problem. Being nice to people just because they're important to you in some way is not nice and kind of, well, fake. People will pick up on that sooner or later.
Postive-Aura Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 Yes we all need friends , change your attitude and it will change your life . You must be sensitive to other people and they will add to your life , your joy and success will be theres , sharing and belonging will add a new dimension to your life but you have to be selfless
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