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I'm In love w/ my ex, what should I do?

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Hi, I am 16 years old and I'm in a real sittuation. I've been dating my boyfriend for over 9 months, but because of stupid mistakes we broke it off. Ever since the 1st couple months we were dating, he would tell me that he loved me and that he wanted to marry me someday. After several months, he told me that he was in love w/ me and that he didn't ever want to lose me. Sice then I realized that I was in love w/ him too. I let him know and we had planned on getting married in 2 years after I graduated from highschool. We acted as a married couple for the last few months and we did everything together. Because of us acting this way, we both lost our virginity. Then things got out of hand. He is a Senior this year and when he started back into the school routine he wanted to hang out w/ his friends more. I got jealous and told him that I thought we shoud break up because I was making him feel guilty about spending time w/ his friends and not w/ me. I broke his heart, and realized my mistake and tried to get him back that same night. I've been an emotional wreck this past month and I've lost 15 lbs because of lack of eating. We got back together a few times, but instead of working things out, we exercised out lack of virginity again. This I know was wrong because we were'nt together and he told me he wasn't in love w/ me anymore. I want him back more than anything in the world and I truly believe he is the one I'm supposed to be with. My parents found out about him and I and now I can't see him very much even if I wanted to. My parents made it seem that because of my mistakes that I had made w/ him, I was just damaged goods and no one would want me anymore. My ex says he doesn't like me like that right now and he wants me to move on, but he checks up on me and doesn't want me to go out w/ the guys i have meantioned to him. He is attracted to a few girls, but he says he just isn't ready for a relationship. I know how I feel about him, and because of that feeling I can't think of anything but him. I don't want to be w/ any other guy, but my family and friends say I should date a few guys to make sure of my feelings for my ex. Even if I did discover that I was in love w/ him still, that doesn't mean he will take me back. I can't eat, I can't sleep w/out dreaming of him, I can't think of anything but him. Do you think we will get back together, or do you think I should forget about him? Is all this Normal? I really need some advise. I know he still likes me, because if he didn't he would've got rid of all the things I got him. But he didn't. I want him back more than anything, but I guess all I can do right now is wait. What should I do? And how can I get him back?

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That sounds exactley like me, only we never had sex because he wasnt ready and now he wants it with another girl which rips me apart inside coz i thought we would be each others firsts and i looked forward to the time and and im scared as hell he will do it with some one else and then want me back and i will have to say no coz i cant be with somebody whos had sex with somebody else (anybody got help on that?), so think your self lucky in that department... sounds like you two really should sit down and talk about things maybe over the net or phone - and hopefully all will work out, if it doesnt then your in the same boat as me

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