bmwm3 Posted August 30, 2007 Share Posted August 30, 2007 a little down today... read my prev post if you need... ex gf broke up with me 3months ago.. i tried NC about a month ago.. she called a week later.. i gave in talked.. always tried to keep it friendly, fun etc.. about 3days ago i was tired of her calling me late night after the bars.. i liked talking to her.. and i felt like we were moving towards getting back one day.. i stood my ground NC or LC once a week just to see whats up.. and today she calls me and says we are never getting back together.. and i feel like crap again. like the first month, second month i felt better was on vacation.. now it truly feels like its over, i am tired of fighting for her. i have nothing left, she wont fight for us... its over.. i dont feel as bad as the first few weeks.. things that bug me now and maybe you guys can help... she was great girl a true loss.. but what bugs me is what will be she doing in a month, a year, 5yrs,10yrs.. from now what is she gonna look like, where is her life gonna go, and i want it to be with me.. thru the adventoures of life.. hope that makes sense.... i want her to be happy... hope that wasnt to weird its just what bugs me seems i have gone thru the other details of the loss.. but i am hang up on these problems... thanks Link to comment
barbielovesmac Posted August 30, 2007 Share Posted August 30, 2007 she was playing games with you. im sorry. go NC. move on with your life. don't let her control it. Link to comment
Zackinlaw Posted August 30, 2007 Share Posted August 30, 2007 She wants you as a friend ... but it's pretty clear she doesn't want you as a boyfriend anymore. Go to total NC for your own sanity ... you don't need to hear that your painful fantasy has become a reality. Sorry for your pain. zack. Link to comment
bmwm3 Posted August 30, 2007 Author Share Posted August 30, 2007 games huh... how could she tell me that she loves me but needs to see what else is out there.. i was okay with that in my mind.. she is 22 i remember that age.. i wasnt thretend at all.. over 3months i had chance to go out with 8girls turned down all of them.. because of her... she would tell me all of the details. the guys she liked even went on dates... i feel so stupid for putting up with all of this.. listeing to her talk about other guys.. what a fool i am.. never get back together... so do you guys think i have a chance LOL who knows with her... any stories of ex gf saying never getting back and she ends up calling anway. Link to comment
Zackinlaw Posted August 30, 2007 Share Posted August 30, 2007 i would def say no even if she came back... Oh man ... you SOOOO need to let this loser go!!!! we were intimate while she was hanging out with other guys as friends.. she would tell me all of the details. the guys she liked even went on dates... i feel so stupid for putting up with all of this.. listeing to her talk about other guys.. Do you actually believe she was hanging out with other guys "as friends"??? Zack. Link to comment
bmwm3 Posted August 30, 2007 Author Share Posted August 30, 2007 ZACKinlaw... i know what you mean i might consider it in the next two weeks to get back.. but anymore then a few months i would say no... its just so hard... i wanted to go thru life with her... its the broken dream and what if s hurt... and the campionship.. . i know she doesnt want me she has tons of guys chasing her... and she loves the attention.. Link to comment
barbielovesmac Posted August 30, 2007 Share Posted August 30, 2007 After all the pain you've been through why would you want to be with her again?!?! Move on from this girl. There are so many girls out there. And I agree with Zack, do you really believe she was just hanging out 'as friends' Look outside the box here. She is playing games with you and you are letting her have ALL the control. Move on. Let her go. Link to comment
bmwm3 Posted August 30, 2007 Author Share Posted August 30, 2007 well yeah she was just hanging out with them... i know two of them they didnt do anything... and the third she was always hanging out with i meet.. and kinda scared him.. he liked her but she liked that he was nice but there was no spark there.. the enjoyed each others company because there was nothing there far as commnitment.. and he bought her drrinks all summer.. nice huh.. she played him too... now she just went out with a guy first date two days ago.. metting in a couple days again.. so anything can happen with him in the future.. i dont think i will be talking to her again.. Link to comment
Zackinlaw Posted August 30, 2007 Share Posted August 30, 2007 i wanted to go through life with her ... its the broken dream and what ifs that hurt... and the companionship.. bmw ... this is the gist of 90% of the relationship posts here, broken dreams! It's just that you can't heal until you let go of those false dreams. Zack. Link to comment
barbielovesmac Posted August 30, 2007 Share Posted August 30, 2007 i just need to let go... there ya go. you said it yourself. you KNOW what you need to do. don't let her play you for a fool. Link to comment
barbielovesmac Posted August 30, 2007 Share Posted August 30, 2007 this is off topic sorry but Zack everytime im reading your replies I see your avatar moving and changing, lol. trips me out hope it's not just me haha Link to comment
bmwm3 Posted August 30, 2007 Author Share Posted August 30, 2007 yeah i know.. thanks for letting me vent.... Link to comment
bmwm3 Posted August 30, 2007 Author Share Posted August 30, 2007 yeah the avatar is triping me out.too. Link to comment
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