darkpumpkin Posted August 29, 2007 Share Posted August 29, 2007 Why do some people become so concerned and worry about a relationship that has not happened and may never happen? How can someone become so upset over something that may never be? Link to comment
JoeWho Posted August 29, 2007 Share Posted August 29, 2007 People like to worry I guess???????????????????? Link to comment
jettison Posted August 29, 2007 Share Posted August 29, 2007 Think about all the people that worry intensely about he lives of people they don't even know like celebrities. How are TomKat? How much jail time will Nicole serve? Is Lindsay back in rehab? You could swear that some of the problems celebrities face in their personal lives are more important to perfect strangers then they are to them. So knowing that, is it any wonder that people are able to obsess about people they fantasize about being in a relationship with? And thanks to the internet, when you consider all the virtual relationships out there these days, modern man has quite an apptitude for projection I am thinking. Link to comment
flower99 Posted August 29, 2007 Share Posted August 29, 2007 Why do some people become so concerned and worry about a relationship that has not happened and may never happen? How can someone become so upset over something that may never be? we all do. We get concerned and worried about a relationship that has not happened & may never happen... Because When we develop feelings for someone, we see that person as someone we find amazing, we begin to wonder, will this person be the one....he's/she's perfect...They seem like everything you've ever wanted....Than the ball drops & we realize it will never be. The dream you began to have, gets' crushed. How can someone become so upset over someting that may never be? We all have. Even you. Everytime we break up with someone....we are upset, because it's over. The dreams you thought you built together- will never be. The life you lived together - will be no more. the marriage you thought you'd have, will never be. It's a part of life, we all experience. We become upset because it will Never be. We mourn over the death of the dreams for our life that we had & will never be. We just have to remember, when one door closes another one opens. We build new dreams, it just takes adjusting. Link to comment
wester Posted August 29, 2007 Share Posted August 29, 2007 Why do some people become so concerned and worry about a relationship that has not happened and may never happen? How can someone become so upset over something that may never be? Because people in this situation (like me) don't look at the "may never be" aspects of it as much as we focus on the "it could happen" aspects. The feelings get so intense that you get this impossible optimism that won't let you ignore all the wonderful possibilities going through your head. Link to comment
LBP Posted August 29, 2007 Share Posted August 29, 2007 It's a symptom of hope... It's as beautiful as it is painful. Link to comment
Nixee Posted August 29, 2007 Share Posted August 29, 2007 Well.... I think one reason can be past relationships. We look back on what's happened to us before, and we vow that if something similar happens again we are going to "nip it in the bud". We start to panic easily... we just want everything to be perfect this time.... we don't want to make one.. single... mistake. We are all quite silly, truthfully. Its good to be aware, but you have to let go and just go with things a bit too. Link to comment
strwberryshortcke Posted August 30, 2007 Share Posted August 30, 2007 It's human nature. Link to comment
JUSTBLUE Posted August 30, 2007 Share Posted August 30, 2007 I read a quote once cant remember who it was by "The mind can create a hell out of heaven, and a heaven out of hell"..or somethin like that! Link to comment
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