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My thoughts for today? Hmmmmm lets see. After over 2-1/2 months I am still in a funk over the end of my 5-1/2 yr relationship. I can't seem to shake it. I am sick of thinking about it. I am sick of dreaming about it. I am sick of feeling down about it.


How long can this go on?

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My thoughts of the day..


Where was my invite to Brighton!


Should I change my exercise routine at the gym when I go in a bit..


Why does Jerry always seem to win in Tom and Jerry?!?!?


My hair is getting a bit longer should I grow it out...


I am aching all over from Saturday night.. my journey thread to be updated on that one... should I take it easy at the gym as all me muscles are aching!

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Thoughts for today


Need to get into my work as got lots to do and only 2days to do it


Must remember to get spare duvet out for my Bro, get bigger suitcase out the loft (shopping $$$$$$$$$$), decide on what I am taking or not taking.


Must remember to do my goals list


Must remember to switch off heating, take out rubbish - etc etc etc


Biggest thought - must learn to be happy and remember all my good points, love myself and remember all the bad points about the ex or just forget about him alltogether.



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1) Wondering my ex left (which is like every other minute).

2) Trying to get through the work day.

3) Going to the gym after work.

4) How to get through this holiday weekend.


Same here. Over the past 2.5 moths, i have been wondering why he left me.

I hate every morning when i wake up, but i still have to.

Crying sometimes during the work or commute.


But, i am moving on a bit quickly than the first two months. I know i definatedly shall not keep wondering. As long as i look into the future, i feel he would not be there for us even if we were still together. For the first time, I feel i am no longer afraid of confronting him.

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Thoughts for the day? - I feel great, happy, I miss who I thought he was, but guess what? That isn't real, he wasn't real, all smoke, mirrors and my longing for something that never was. Time to quit the "poor me" bs and enjoy my ife, I know I have to grieve and pass through each phase, and I realize I will return to some of those phases as my mind heals, but .... enough already, let's enjoy as much as we can while we can.


Plus I lost 3 more lbs, 24 in total, feeling pretty froggy ... only bad part, I'm running out of clothes to wear, and I know this sounds a lie, but I don't want to shop. 4 more lbs to my goal, if I take an additional 5 off, I be down right skinny!!!

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i feel similar to just M.E. i want the relationship i wish i had with him, and i miss the person i thought he was.


relapsed yesterday and cried 3 times at work (privately of course).


have to get ready for a conference call soon. karaoke later on with friends. hanging out with some new guy friend (totally platonic) this weekend.


maybe i will fly out of town on a whim, since the ex and i were supposed to take a trip together. staying at home will be making me sad...

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Plus I lost 3 more lbs, 24 in total, feeling pretty froggy ... only bad part, I'm running out of clothes to wear, and I know this sounds a lie, but I don't want to shop. 4 more lbs to my goal, if I take an additional 5 off, I be down right skinny!!!


You go girl, that is absolutely fantstic, I am really impressed - my turn once I get back from hol, fit into Xmas party from by 14th December. back down the gym then and weightwatchers.


How did you do yours??

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Working out, eating light, lots of yogurt and salads, I love salads, make a meal out of them and I did use alli, it helps especially for the times you eat out (it is supposed to up the weight loss by 25%, stay away from a fatty diet if you use it). I eat really light now, I think that is the biggest part plus cutting out the stress from my marriage. I really believe that stuff about cortisol causing the body to hold weight on. I have bounce in my step now.


When you're in FL, you should be able to get wonder food, great seafood and wonderful salads. Everyone (women) there is running around in bikinis with "bolt ons" (surgically enhanced bustlines) but then there are the retirees so quite a mixed bag. My friend who passed away in April was my dearest friend so I went there often (Clearwater, not far) . I was just pricing a trip to Fort Meyers to vist her daughter.

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Well, I am not yet on my "winter weight" (thank god) but here are my thoughts of the day:


Why do I now have hair where I don't want it and not where I do want it?


Everything still works on this ol' body, it just takes longer to get it to boot up in the morning (a lot more snap, crackle and pop than I would like, especially with the crisp, cold mornings)


This ol' house I am in is great but it needs the running of little feet and some chaos of kids and such.


Why do they say you may "now board the plane." or "You may get on the plane." I am not going ON the plane, no sir that sounds much too dangerous for me. I am going IN the plane.


Yes, these are the thoughts that seriously limit the size of my circle of friends...



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1. why is it wrong for her to love me

2.is she still seeing this particular guy

3. does she think about me

4. does she miss me

5. why is wrong for her to love me

6.taking my dog out to play (hopefully teach him to fetch)

7. will i find a job

8. does she love me

9. does she love me

10.does she love me

what will i eat today

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My brain is deep in thought this morning:


Kilometers are shorter than miles. Save gas, take your next trip in kilometers


Some see the glass as half-empty, some see the glass as half-full. I see the glass as too big.


Whenever I see a large crowd, I always wonder what the most disgusting thing any one of them ever did.


Most people are not particularly good at anything.


You can't have it both ways. That depends on how intimately you know the other person. Maybe you can't have it both ways at once, but if you've got a little time, you can probably have it six or seven ways.


You can see why I live in a cabin in the middle of the woods.



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When someone asks you, A penny for your thoughts, and you put your two cents in, what happens to the other penny?


If lawyers are disbarred and clergymen defrocked, doesn't it follow that electricians can be delighted, musicians denoted?


Give a man a fish and he will eat for a day. Teach him how to fish, and he will sit in a boat and drink beer all day.


Before they invented drawing boards, what did they go back to?


Well, if crime fighters fight crime and fire fighters fight fire, what do freedom fighters fight? They never mention that part to us, do they?



AND finally, for the appropriate one on this forum...


Men are from Earth, women are from Earth. Deal with it.


Is it any wonder WHY I am single?



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It never really went away. It just kind of went into a "dormant" stage.


I am feeling pretty feisty and just slightly "fed-up."


Must be the sun. We actually had cloud failure today. Can hardly believe there really is a color in the sky other than grey. Big yellow orb in the sky to, what is up with THAT?



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And a few more things that just chap my buttocks...


So, I am going to have a small piece of choclate and I reach into the cupboard for a "fun size" piece of candy. What the hell is so much fun about a one bite sized piece of candy? If it was fun size it should be the size of a Buick. Think about that. You could have a helluva lot of fun with that. Call the neighbors, wake the kids, wake the hamster! Go ahead wake the hamster up. Get him walking around then go out and lay into that FUN sized piece of choclate parked in the driveway. THAT would be fun sized.


So, not satisfied with my alleged fun size chocolate I decided to make some hot cocoa. So again, I reach for the container of cocoa, and low and behold it says "family size." Well, I am a single man, not a family guy yet, so I have better not have any of that. No sir, I don't want to offend any weights and measures bureaucrats sniffing around my house. So, I am pretty much screwed on the candy and cocoa, destroyed by some corporate stooges idea of fun and good old fashioned American family values.


Why do I even get out of bed in the morning.



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