He has trouble being honest with me

[allstarsassyone]

My boyfriend lies to me saying people don't come over here for dinner or visiting. He has trouble being honest with me! I wish he would just quit it. There must have been a thousand times when I told him how I felt about it. It makes me feel stupid! He likes to lie about a lot of things. There is this one girl who knew that our apartment had another upstairs...how would she know that? Am I stupid? Do I have to confront him about this? Has she came into this apartment those days I was out of town??? What is going on in this relationship? I feel like I am going to break down and cry about it!!!!

[Natalie67]

i think you should dump him! He's not worth it, and the information seems to add up to the fact that he is cheating on you with another girl!

[snoangel]

I've been there, actually I'm there now. I wish I could tell you that liars aren't worth it and you need to leave him, but I cant. I know my boyfriend now is lying, and he continues lying, and yet I dont leave him. In all honesty I should though, and so should you. I mean, you have your proof. I know theres this little part of you that is making excuses for him, that says hes lying to you for a good reason, or hes unaware that he is lying. but we have to be honest with ourselves. Who comes first, him or you? You have your proof. Don't wait until the lies become so big or hurtful that you are damaged. No man is worth that. Now i have to try and follow my own advice!

[Jenn422]

I think you already know answer to your own question, you just have to put yourself first and get out before it continues and he destroys your self esteem or gives you a disease!

[Happy_Go_Lucky_Heb]

If you really luv him, give him a chance and leave him. Make him realise that he ain't got you no more and see if he can change, if he can't then you really have to ask urself if you can love someone who can't be loyal to you...

 

Happy Heb