Life took a random turn and we are back together again

[cpo3619]

Its been about 6 months........I didn't contact her at all that whole time.......It was hard but I bettered myself and got over the hurt........about a month ago she would randomly call/text/message me.....she would ask to hang out and then go to lunch...ect............Finally I got sick of ignoring them and thought whatever ill see how shes doing.......we hung out and had the best of time....we had that "special connection" again.......I left and just simply said call me again sometime if u want.........about an hour later she texted me saying how she was wrong to break up and every date/relationship she was in she compared to me and her...she said she couldn't stop thinking about me even after 6 MONTHS....we are now dating again about 4 days later......we are both a lot different and getting to know eachother again........she wants to hang out a ton now, which is great, because before she was wanting space and to "find herself"...............wish me luck and we will see how it goes!!!!! thanks for all the help over the last 6 months!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[nuttybuddy]

congrats! good luck!!

[joiboi]

Congrats bro!! SO why did you guys break up in the first place? Did you guys date others while you were broken up??

[cpo3619]

we broke up because she "needed space" and wanted to "find herself" and date other people..........she dated a few people in those 6 months...I didn't really date anyone(although I would have cause I was over her)..anyways all of the problems we use to have/fight about seem to have gone away....I guess we both have done our changing

[rsxguy520]

congrats. glad you guys matured within your time apart.

[bubblyblonde11]

Congrats to you

 

x

[Clabs]

Hey cpo - congratulations from me too! I hope it works out this time.

 

Mark

[dreamguy]

Congrats and keep us posted about good things that happen to you!

 

It's always good to hear such a story because, once again, it answers so many questions such as "will my ex forget about me if I stay away for months ?" or "will I lose my ex if he/she dates someone else?" or "girls seem to move on much quicker than men".

 

Well there you go ladies and gentlemen... all the questions above have been answered with a real life example.

[papalazarou]

Remember tho bro take it SLOWWWWWW...

[papalazarou]

we are both a lot different and getting to know eachother again........she wants to hang out a ton now, which is great, because before she was wanting space and to "find herself"...............wish me luck and we will see how it goes!!!!!

 

By the way I should add that this is exactly how it should be...enough time has passed so you arenot back into the same "routine".

 

You both have had enough time for clarity of thought!