confused about a guy

[slaying_the_wolf]

hi. ok here is my problem there is this guy that iv been chatting with more often i met him about 2 years ago but then we stoped hanging out when i broke up with my girl firend cuz she was the only reason we hung out that and he went to a different school. however lately we have ben talking more and were gonan hang out in a few days . i know hes gay nad he knows im bi. i had an attraction 2 him 2 years ago and now im feeling that attraction again. and now that were hanging out in 2 days im not really sure how he feels about me. iv kinda been flirting with him but i cant really tell if he notices or if he likes me . can anyone give me some tips on wht to do in when we hang out and how i can tell if he likes me based on past chats or any ways to tell if he lieks me when we hang out. please give me soem advice im going over to his house in like 2 days

[creaminthecoffee]

Well, the hard part is solved for you- you guys are sure of each other's sexual orientation. I guess this would be somewhat like with a straight person, you really don't want to make a move too soon and turn him off you. What are you going to do when you go over his house? Maybe then I can say something more specific.

[PeanutButter]

Well, the hard part is solved for you- you guys are sure of each other's sexual orientation. I guess this would be somewhat like with a straight person, you really don't want to make a move too soon and turn him off you.

 

WOW do not say that! comparing straight to gays is ridiculous, or bi and gay to straight, whatever. ITS RIDICULOUS.

 

Plainly put it you two have an attraction for each other a while ago and now you wonder what it'll be like? Just let things happen. See what happens if he tries to make a move on yooh or flirts a lot in person. Touchy like his hand on you or something. Small signs yooh can tell in person, over talking on the phone or online it can be a bit hard!!

[PeanutButter]

okay, ridiculous/rude--offensive.

[creaminthecoffee]

I'm not sure I really made myself clear. I meant that, in most cases before an actual relationships starts irregardless of the person's gender/sexual orientation people feel uncertain and unsure of their feelings and whether those feelings are reciprocated. It can really be an ackward situation if they're not. No I'm not comparings straights to gay, whatever I just siaid that because it seemed shorter than typing out what i just did now.

I really don't think the typing in all caps and exclamation point was very necessary.