Meeting The Real Deal

[BlueWolf]

That's right, I actually got to meet REAL pick-up artists from my area.

I've followed this for a while but there is nothing quite like seeing one in the club.

 

It is mind-blowing and inspiring.

 

My friend and I need some REAL help. Sorry to admit the truth, but while this site does help with dating, it has not changed my life.

 

My friend and I needed real PUAs to show us how it's done. The first few we met - we were disappointed. However, not long ago a PUA had a birthday party at a club and naturally, there were a lot of PUAs.

 

Some natural.

Some under Mystery's Method.

Others following NLP.

 

But most of these guys, to be good, had gotten their information from different sources.

 

That night, one PUA in particular stood out. This guy had long curly hair, he was average looking, and his body-language was what I've been trying to master for months.

 

The first time we saw him, he had approached 3 Asian girls and held their attention. He approached by going in and sitting on the lap of the middle Asian girl and starting to talk. It blew my mind to just see the girls start to laugh. I've HEARD and READ about it, but actually watching it, my jaw dropped.

 

Later he stole a girl who was approached by two guys. He reached out his hand to the girl to give him a handshake WHILE she was talking to the guys. He could read by her body language that she wasn't having fun. Eventually after a second try she smiled, reached over, and shook his hand. The Pick Up artist proceeded to befriend the two guys. After talking to the group for a little, he moved on to another girl who was sitting on a bench by some other guys.

 

See how he creates social proof? This guy did it by the book. He was just rolling along. Talking to him is fun too. He isn't cocky or stuck up. He knows how to befriend people and be a cool and generous guy.

 

That's what I want to be.

 

Eventually I had to move on but I did see him again while I was talking to some other PUAs (they were giving me and my friend tips on dress, body language, etc. They needed to be brutal with us). He popped up around the corner and entered the room (people hung out there that weren't dancing).

 

One of the PUAs that was giving us lessons asked him to approach some girls behind us that had recently blown out the PUA that was giving us advice. So he went into action. He sat by the girls and started his thing. By the body language of him and the girls you could see that it was on. Unfortunately there was a big buff guy who had a girl with him and he eventually moved the girl to the other side of him, because he could see the threat.

 

The girl he was left talking to was laughing and enjoying it.

 

When he rejoined us he said he was already "3 numbers deep." And this was like only 20-25 minutes after we met him.

 

He went to exit the room and saw an attractive girl that was passing by the room. He slowly (facing away), tapped her by the shoulder and asked "where you going?" and leaned against the wall away from her. She started leaning in because he was saying something (I couldn't hear). At that same moment two more girls ran up to him and surrounded him while he was already talking to the original girl.

 

Eventually when I went up on the dance floor I saw him enter. He easily got a girl to dance with him. But that's not all, she was laughing and enjoying herself the whole time.

 

He made it seem so effortless, that it literally has to be the most inspiring thing I have seen.

 

Wow.

[Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll]

shocked at what?

 

the fact he has confidence and he does what i tell people day in and day out

 

just do it

 

sitting in a womans lap and not knowing her is a bit over the top tho

 

but anything else

 

hes not special just has confidence in himself and has that swagger too him that makes him so interesting.......

[BlueWolf]

I surround myself with a lot of confident friends. Believe me, as Mystery says, "competence" is better than "confidence."

 

Many confident guys fail. Realize there is a step above that.

 

I would reconsider the "over the top" statement, especially in a club.

 

What IS over the top is the girl who ******* at me for refusing to buy her an energy drink.

[Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll]

you need confidence and swagger

 

that man has a tremendous swagger hes one of a kind, hes intriguing and interesting......

 

thats why hes attractive........his personality is sexy too them

 

thats all, hes not special..........

 

now if he can persuade the IRS too give him 1,000,000 refund in his next check then i will bow too his feet and call him majestic

[matts0344]

Yeah, I probably couldn't do that stuff, because I just don't like myself that much.

 

I would enjoy watching other people do it though, wishing it were me hahah.

 

What did they say about your what to wear? I have no fashion sense at all.

[BlueWolf]

you need confidence and swagger

 

that man has a tremendous swagger hes one of a kind, hes intriguing and interesting......

 

thats why hes attractive........his personality is sexy too them

 

thats all, hes not special..........

 

now if he can persuade the IRS too give him 1,000,000 refund in his next check then i will bow too his feet and call him majestic

 

 

 

I'm surprised at the confident decision you make after reading 33 lines of my text. Is it possible for you to consider something else if you had witnessed him and the other PUAs in the club?

 

But I agree, from a PUAs point of view, he's nothing special because that is how good they are supposed to be.

[Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll]

Yeah, I probably couldn't do that stuff, because I just don't like myself that much.

 

I would enjoy watching other people do it though, wishing it were me hahah.

 

What did they say about your what to wear? I have no fashion sense at all.

 

awww man its not about your fashion..........all you have too do is be interesting........outgoing and attract people too your personality.........

[BlueWolf]

Actually it is about fashion. The more fashion sense you have, more girls will notice that because I think most women would agree that they are very perceptive.

 

I like wearing loud hawaiian shirts. I actually get comments from random girls. I guess that's what peacocking is supposed to do.

 

If you want to attract a high-quality attractive and intelligent girl, you better get as much of your crap together as you can and make yourself an attractive person in every area possible.

 

If not, some people do just fine doing what the other 99% of people do on earth as well. But there is a minority that knows they deserve better.

[Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll]

I'm surprised at the confident decision you make after reading 33 lines of my text. Is it possible for you to consider something else if you had witnessed him and the other PUAs in the club?

 

But I agree, from a PUAs point of view, he's nothing special because that is how good they are supposed to be.

 

I see the same thing go on at my school everyday all day its no big deal imo........

 

when women approach me and start talking who are absolutely beautiful am i special?

 

i remember one year there were 4 girls who were all sexy that approached me and started talking, and wanted too know more about me, mind you now all the doods where on them saying their sexy

 

now am i special? i didnt approach them.........they approached me

 

im not knocking him, but all hes doing is using his confidence and swagger.......had he not he would be on the sidelines

[BlueWolf]

I see the same thing go on at my school everyday all day its no big deal imo........

 

when women approach me and start talking who are absolutely beautiful am i special?

 

i remember one year there were 4 girls who were all sexy that approached me and started talking, and wanted too know more about me, mind you now all the doods where on them saying their sexy

 

now am i special? i didnt approach them.........they approached me

 

im not knocking him, but all hes doing is using his confidence and swagger.......had he not he would be on the sidelines

 

Okay.

I don't need to prove anything to you or how he is different.

 

But I'll say that I know the "school-type" dudes you talk about. And it's laughable comparing them with PUAs. That's all I'll say, and you have the privilege of believing what you like. Especially since you are able to make extremely fast judgments. Do you use ESP?

[Yates33]

I see the same thing go on at my school everyday all day its no big deal imo........

 

when women approach me and start talking who are absolutely beautiful am i special?

 

i remember one year there were 4 girls who were all sexy that approached me and started talking, and wanted too know more about me, mind you now all the doods where on them saying their sexy

 

now am i special? i didnt approach them.........they approached me

 

im not knocking him, but all hes doing is using his confidence and swagger.......had he not he would be on the sidelines

 

You're a virgin.

[Yates33]

Okay.

I don't need to prove anything to you or how he is different.

 

But I'll say that I know the "school-type" dudes you talk about. And it's laughable comparing them with PUAs. That's all I'll say, and you have the privilege of believing what you like. Especially since you are able to make extremely fast judgments. Do you use ESP?

 

I agree.

 

However, do realize that a PUA is just that...confidence. Think about it, everything he did requires CONFIDENCE. I believe in alot of these methods because I have incorporated them into my "inner self" and that's what its about...it's about working on yourself from the inside out. You have to believe your walk.

 

I didn't kiss a girl until I was 18 and I am good looking, not to be conceited, the problem was I was approaching women the wrong way...from 18 until now...I am two completely different people. My friends still cannot believe what I pull off and how much I have changed in the girls department.

[Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll]

You're a virgin.

 

ok...........i still dont know what that has too do with my statement

[servedcold]

I think the most important things to learn from PUAs are that 1) They have a goal and are focused on it. 2) They approach lots of women until they are so comfortable with it that they don't mind rejection and are thus able to be more charming. If AFCs did these two things, their results would go up. You can cold call 100 people and belch in the phone, one of those 100 will buy whatever you are selling.