Getting back is POINTLESS and HURTS like hell

[tushboy]

Seriously guys, everyone who's doing NC here and posting about how you need time for yourself and need to give your EX a break from you is so ON POINT !! I 've been struggling with NC and trying to get in tuch with my EX for the lasr few weeks.

 

My EX has already planned to move in with his ex, which tells me clearly I was a rebound. A couple of days back we even ended up kissing (yes I was tipsy) and the morning after I called him, thought maybe he still loved me, but I got a NO REPLY.

 

 

Now my eyes are open, its HOPELESS to get back or make attempts to do so when you are healing or trying to get over the person, once you have totally healed maybe then you can open lines of communication....NC here I come again...sigh....this mussbe my 785th attempt or so

[milesaway]

Well, my ex and I broke up a little over a month ago. Two weeks ago I contacted her and told her how I feel. I put the ball in her court and initiated NC. Have not heard from her. I think she is already dating again. I do miss her so much but I have to be strong. I hate feeling so hopeless!!

[tushboy]

Yea, we need to take care of ourselves now, seriously I know we love them to death. But now I have GIVEN UP. I really want to concentrate on my job, health and my friends. I ve wasted too many nights crying and days daydreamin of getting him back. Its time to do something with my life!!

[Clabs]

Hey TB!

 

Nice one fella! I am so glad because you sound so much more positive and happier and that makes me smile!

 

"Now my eyes are open, its HOPELESS to get back or make attempts to do so when you are healing or trying to get over the person, once you have totally healed maybe then you can open lines of communication"

 

Wise words indeed - this is totally true.

 

Take care of yourself!

 

Mark

[tushboy]

Thanks Mark, I really want to feel better and I don't wanna let you down

[Clabs]

Hey fella!

 

Don't you worry about me - just dont let yourself down - you can do it!

 

Mark

[john84]

Stay with it this time, you're right about healing before making contact.