benga Posted August 27, 2007 Share Posted August 27, 2007 We all know every man masturbates!! Some very happily married men or men in relationships masturbate as well.... 100% of them/us... In my past relationships I have brought up the subject of women and masturbation. Each time I have had the same respone - "Oh, no! I have never masturbated". "I don't even know what to do".. How true do you think these statements really are? I am not naive, but just want to know of some stats around this if any of you have it... Or if at all some women, just never masturbate even if they aren't getting sex...Look forward to hearing from those with perspective and/or experience.... Cheers Benga Link to comment
Tethys Posted August 27, 2007 Share Posted August 27, 2007 In my experience, it's only women of a certain age who deny ever masturbating, but they are probably lying. In this day and age I think it's more open and thereforeeee more acceptable to admit to it. In some communities, however, it's still considered something one should never talk about. Link to comment
MarkD Posted August 27, 2007 Share Posted August 27, 2007 My ex GF would say the exact same thing. I think some women just have the feeling that it is wrong. Link to comment
Alezia Posted August 27, 2007 Share Posted August 27, 2007 It's not as much as I've never done it then sometimes I really don't feel like it for really long stretches of time. I live with my partner now, though I know he sometimes goes at it alone I rarely do. I'd rather invite him in Link to comment
rootcause43 Posted August 27, 2007 Share Posted August 27, 2007 Evey woman has masturbated just about. They may not call it that... they may not call it masturbation. But they have. Link to comment
android12 Posted August 27, 2007 Share Posted August 27, 2007 haha yea i think for women, not all but some, its kinda "shameful" and "dirty" and thereforeeee they deny it. i think also because alot of women hate the idea that men will masterbate all the time so they dun wanna put themselves in the category of being "like men" when it comes to sex - thinking/acting etc with themselves only. i do however know many women who are happy not to masterbate and have never done it - so far lol. i think that if they did have some form of orgasm they might give it another shot HAHAH but yea, women just dont feel the need to do it as often as men Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted August 27, 2007 Share Posted August 27, 2007 I do it. I have for years. I have a couple toys, and my boyfriend knows I have them. On average I probably do it 3 times a week. I think most women have done it. But I have a best friend that doesn't, and never has. She's also never had an orgasm, poor thing. Link to comment
benga Posted August 29, 2007 Author Share Posted August 29, 2007 I hear you! And for the record, not all men masturbate. My bf, for one, doesn't. Seriously... I am willing to put a wager on this one!! I don't know a single man who hasn't masturbated Honestly... Cheers Benga Link to comment
Zampotne Posted August 29, 2007 Share Posted August 29, 2007 ^^^ I was thinking the same thing. I think your bf just fibs about it- maybe because he thinks it will upset you. I do it about 3 times a week. I didn't do it for many many years- simply because I didn't know how to give myself an orgasm, so I thought it was boring. Now that I know, I love it. Still prefer physical contact though. Any girls ever feel kind of lonely afterward? Even if they have a bf/husband? I do sometimes... Link to comment
angelmaria Posted August 29, 2007 Share Posted August 29, 2007 My 2 cents... I think that almost any person, male or female, once they reach sexual maturity has at least tried it once. Some like it, some don't. For me, if i am feeling particularly 'in the mood' and am alone, i have no qualms doing it. I do prefer to have the company of a man b/c of the human contact/interaction. I have also found that it seems to stimulate them doing it infront of them! Being comfortable with yourself either alone in the presense of a partner is a good thing. If you have never had the pleasure of an orgasm either self inflicted or otherwise, it is truly sad!! Link to comment
EllisBreaks Posted August 29, 2007 Share Posted August 29, 2007 We all know every man masturbates!! Some very happily married men or men in relationships masturbate as well.... 100% of them/us... In my past relationships I have brought up the subject of women and masturbation. Each time I have had the same respone - "Oh, no! I have never masturbated". "I don't even know what to do".. How true do you think these statements really are? I am not naive, but just want to know of some stats around this if any of you have it... Or if at all some women, just never masturbate even if they aren't getting sex...Look forward to hearing from those with perspective and/or experience.... Cheers Benga Complete Crap! I am female, and I masturbate sometimes upto 5 times a day. I started at a VERY young age as well. Link to comment
J_Babe0910 Posted August 30, 2007 Share Posted August 30, 2007 I used to think is was gross and wrong until I stopped being a dork, when a friend told me this: "If you're letting a guy go down there, you sure better be letting yourself go down there." Granted this was after a having a few drinks (and I was 15 then) it all made sense. I dunno if other girls believe in this, but it helped me to realize its a good thing to be comfortable with it. ^^^ I was thinking the same thing. I think your bf just fibs about it- maybe because he thinks it will upset you. I do it about 3 times a week. I didn't do it for many many years- simply because I didn't know how to give myself an orgasm, so I thought it was boring. Now that I know, I love it. Still prefer physical contact though. Any girls ever feel kind of lonely afterward? Even if they have a bf/husband? I do sometimes... Yes I do feel lonely sometimes and it sucks! Especially if its when I know I should be with a boy and I feel all loser-ish for not having a bf at the time. Link to comment
jellytot Posted September 1, 2007 Share Posted September 1, 2007 Ha ha, what a funny post - good though - but heres a question... What if the boyfriend, has sex with his girlfriend - EVERYDAY - atleast THREE TIMES A DAY..... Morning afternoon, and all night long - surely then he wouldnt masturbate???? Could he? Would he? And, im assuming masturbating means masturbating entirely on ones own.... And masturbating in front of eachother doesnt count as 'masturbating'... What an odd word, masturbating, say it ten times, it sounds weird. lol Link to comment
jengh Posted September 1, 2007 Share Posted September 1, 2007 wow....a majority say they havent? I honestly don't know one girl who hasn't and they will all openly admit it. We talk about which toys are best and soforth...no reason to be ashamed. Link to comment
Insidious1 Posted September 1, 2007 Share Posted September 1, 2007 I am starting to like the "sex and romance" section of these forums a lot more! LOL I'm not and unfortunately have not (since my breakup) been sexually active... BUT its some DARN good reading material! I actually just had a talk with this woman last night about this very topic! She said she has done it a few times... but its not a common thing. She said she would rather have the guy she is dating do it for her! LOL So i guess it would be a little far-fetched to say they haven't EVER done it... or atleast "explored" themselves.... But i don't think it means that all woman do it on a regular or even semi-regular basis.. Oh and in regards to men... i'm a man and i have gone 2-2.5 weeks not masturbating! I had AMPLE opportunity (and i was even single and lonely! lol...) but did not have the want or urge to do it. I would even see porn, and it still did nothing... Crazy huh!? lol Link to comment
theangel Posted September 7, 2007 Share Posted September 7, 2007 I have tried masturbating a few times and it didnt do nothing for me. I did not enjoy it mostly because i know that it is my own hands. I just could not turn myself on. I feel comfortable with myself so that has nothing to do with it. It just felt wrong. Link to comment
MargaretK Posted September 7, 2007 Share Posted September 7, 2007 I masturbate. I like it, I think it is great. I am with a guy who doesn't masturbate regularly. Before he met me he hadn't masturbated in about 5 months. He says he thinks it is pointless and doesn't like cleaning up the mess lol (freak). When it comes to guys, why is it so hard for people to believe they don't masturbate regularly? I know men that have chosen to never have sex again... EVER... they had it a good number of times, they thought it was good but also thought "meh, wasn't that good" and decided not to do it again... It may not be typical but it happens, we are all so different, especially when it comes to sexuality. Whats right and wrong and "normal" is up to each individual. Think outside the box people... I think that is my new catchphrase in here haha Link to comment
Parsley Posted September 7, 2007 Share Posted September 7, 2007 Of course I do! I have found though, since being with my boyfriend, it is never as good, and most of the time it's a missed sneeze kind of feeling. It's quite odd as I'll often masturbate in front of him as part of sex, and THEN it's fantastic, maybe knowing he's there loving the show helps? I can understand younger girls, still in secondary school, not yet in 6th form, not wanting to admit that they do that. Much as we all know that we have all at least explored ourselves, teenage girls are CRUEL and will make deductions that make no sense about those that admit they masturbate, like they were practising cause they're a lesbian or something (not saying it's a bad thing, but we all know what it's like at secondary school, different = bad) Link to comment
Frangipani Posted September 7, 2007 Share Posted September 7, 2007 Always have. Less when I'm in a relationship or depressed. But masturbation is a big part of sex for me. I can't come without clitoral stimulation so I usually do it while sitting on top or my b/f will do it for me as foreplay. I always explain this early on...and most guys i have been in long term relationshps with love my honesty and are happy that i know my body and am confident enough to do what i want. But...sometimes i get the feeling that my b/f feels like he doesn't 'do it' for me because i have to do it this way. Makes me sad. Maybe its juts me being silly. Link to comment
VoleurDesCoeurs Posted September 13, 2007 Share Posted September 13, 2007 My bf has the illusion that I do and he wants me to do it infront of him but how do you do something you've never actually done. grr Link to comment
someguy88 Posted September 16, 2007 Share Posted September 16, 2007 Ha ha, what a funny post - good though - but heres a question... What if the boyfriend, has sex with his girlfriend - EVERYDAY - atleast THREE TIMES A DAY..... Morning afternoon, and all night long - surely then he wouldnt masturbate???? Could he? Would he? Damn straight we'd be jerkin' our gerkin'. lol Men have what is known as "morning boners". After a hot night of sex we wake up solid as a rock and if we don't have to pee, we'll probably jerk off. lol O yea, I feel kind of weird saying this but when I was younger a girl asked me how long it takes a guy to recover after orgasm and since then I realized how oblivious women can be about our tool. It's usually about 8-10 minutes after the initial shot. Add 5 minutes to each subsequent shot and salute. lol Link to comment
someguy88 Posted September 16, 2007 Share Posted September 16, 2007 I masturbate. I like it, I think it is great. I am with a guy who doesn't masturbate regularly. Before he met me he hadn't masturbated in about 5 months. He says he thinks it is pointless and doesn't like cleaning up the mess lol (freak). What a load of crap. ROFL. Anything beyond a month is impossible. Btw, the 'freak' notation is priceless. edit @frangipani - damn! I'm surprised that any guy would have a problem with that. The hotter the woman gets, the hotter I get. Link to comment
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