kevyluv Posted August 25, 2007 Share Posted August 25, 2007 My girlfriend and I recently broke up after about a year and half relationship. I have tried to call her a few times and even sent an email. She has not returned my call or email and has pretty much shut me out. It's been about a month since things went sour. I was wondering why/how someone could do this? Never even had a face to face. Never seen someone act so cold before. Any ideas? Link to comment
Anonymous_32 Posted August 25, 2007 Share Posted August 25, 2007 I'm not to good with advice. But here it goes. Well I was pretty much in this same position awhile ago. So what I did was just moved on as hard as it was. I just tried and tried. People will just go out of there way to hurt others no matter how it makes them feel without thinking about the other person in the situation. Link to comment
tylercdurden2004 Posted August 25, 2007 Share Posted August 25, 2007 My girlfriend and I recently broke up after about a year and half relationship. I have tried to call her a few times and even sent an email. She has not returned my call or email and has pretty much shut me out. It's been about a month since things went sour. I was wondering why/how someone could do this? Never even had a face to face. Never seen someone act so cold before. Any ideas? Maybe it hurts her too much to talk to you. Maybe she moved on. She owes you nothing and you owe her nothing if you are not together, if the relationship is over. Did she at least break up with you in person? Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted August 25, 2007 Share Posted August 25, 2007 you should wait a bit longer then a month to contact her. I would say about 3-6 months maybe. 1 month isn't so much, even though it seems like it. you need to not be around for her to maybe start missing you. in either case the ball is in her court b/c you sen her an e-mail and now it's upto her to take the time to respond. btw, why did you guys break up? Link to comment
mizz_sweety Posted August 25, 2007 Share Posted August 25, 2007 Maybe she's moved on, ppl do tend to act like that once they have moved on, i've seen it happen Link to comment
lakerfan3118 Posted August 25, 2007 Share Posted August 25, 2007 yeah, my advice would be similar to everyone else and for you just to try to move on... she doesn't want to talk to you, and for a reason that's founded or not, it's not worth it to keep going after her and trying to force something. move on, and you'll be better off, regardless of the short-term. Link to comment
kevyluv Posted August 25, 2007 Author Share Posted August 25, 2007 Maybe it hurts her too much to talk to you. Maybe she moved on. She owes you nothing and you owe her nothing if you are not together, if the relationship is over. Did she at least break up with you in person? Nope. you should wait a bit longer then a month to contact her. I would say about 3-6 months maybe. 1 month isn't so much, even though it seems like it. you need to not be around for her to maybe start missing you. in either case the ball is in her court b/c you sen her an e-mail and now it's upto her to take the time to respond. btw, why did you guys break up? We basically broke up because she wanted to move away Link to comment
tylercdurden2004 Posted August 25, 2007 Share Posted August 25, 2007 Nope. We basically broke up because she wanted to move away So she wanted to move away and I am assuming for a job or some life move other that getting away from you, but she didnt have the decency to break up with you in person? Link to comment
Slick Posted August 27, 2007 Share Posted August 27, 2007 We basically broke up because she wanted to move away Awww.....reading this makes me feel like a really really bad Girlfriend Thats exactly what I told my boyfriend, that I wanted and had to move, but inorder to be able to pay for school next year, I had no choice! I haven't called him, mayby i'm scared really don't think he'd even talk to me. But I feel bad, but hurt aswell that he wouldn't support my decision, or carry on with a long distance relationship! It wasn't even in person because of the distance we live apart now before I move! Link to comment
alwaysyourfriend Posted August 27, 2007 Share Posted August 27, 2007 i can't leave messages with the exgf right now as she has stated what she is and is not comfortable with regarding communication but i would love to chat with her tonight for a few hours or pop over for a cup o java. instead i am at a cafe online here. that's ok. i am gonna be busy doing some dating events over the next four days so i won't be posting on here. taking a gal to a pottery class [mud oven] then over for some faitias at the star. i like dating - its great being with someone real time and getting a better picture of them [expressions, giggles,etc.] anyhooo, they are closing the shop here so i have to go and i hope the exgf saw my ideas abou her and i working on things together. take care all, Link to comment
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